So you hate me cuz im gay

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BeauBLESSED

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Be it off-topic or not, I think that your orientation doesn't define your character. :)
 
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penguingal

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#42
Do you not understand what it means to give a reason for the hope within you in kindness and love? What if your words instead of healing only cause a greater wound? sure your doctrine is right but what is the point of doctrine if all you do is turn people away from Jesus with it?
I absolutely agree with u there. There is no greater sin than to turn people away from Christ. Let's treat each other with love here. Right or wrong, I believe you'll learn and change in your walk with Christ. Isn't He awesome :D
 
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Joshua175

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#43
God did not make you to be gay, that is false. God is against homosexuality and it makes him sick to his stomach but it says All sins are forgiven through Christ. Homosexuals can be forgiven but Christ tells us to turn from our wicked ways. None the less, hate of a person is not acceptable but even God hates sin and homosexuality is clearly a sin and should not be thought of as righteous or normal.
 
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Lyndies

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You know what? I don't understand completely...I don't even know exactly what I believe on this subject. But one thing is for sure--jerks that are going to bash you are not good representatives of Christ at all. We are all called to love. If you ever want to talk, message me.

I'm sorry that you've been hurt by people that call themselves Christians.

Go to God for the love and compassion because people are flawed. Not all of us will hurt you, though. :]
 
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Lyndies

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#45
Be it off-topic or not, I think that your orientation doesn't define your character. :)
I agree. I'm sure there's so much more to you. Are you an artist? An athlete? Do you like the rain so much that you dance in it? Is mac-n-cheese your favorite dish of all time?

Maybe those are random, but.......who cares? :]
 
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Peter_Pan

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I am absolutely sickened, by this. This as in what you ask? Not that she is homosexual, but to think people like this can feel good about themselves after what you've wrote. We are not a judge, nor should we judge. I feel like I don't want to call myself a christian anymore, My new faith is called God Lover. I truly can not stand being accosiated with people that condemn others. God tells us to love one another, wow didn't you just preform a sin? Sin is Sin. It is all equal in God's jurisdiction. Before you pass judgement on someone that is homosexual, pull that tree out of your eye.

I am not taking up for homosexuality, but I am taking up for a person that is in need for a Christ follower. She needs our help as christians. What if you were condemned like you just condemned her, you would feel like CRAP! And I don't see how you can sleep with yourselves at night, knowing what you have done. God calls us to love one another like He loves us. We should try to give that Agape love that can not be earned, and cannot be bought. He gives us the love just because.

Now before you go on about how "horrible" she is, why don't you check yourself? Why don't you pray to God to deliver her from this? And, why don't you help her instead of being HATEFUL! I have seen great things by the Lord, I don't see why He has shown b=me but he did. So get off your little "perfect" high horse and get a LIFE. GET OVER YOURSELF. BE A PERSON THAT GOD HAS CALLED US TO BE. BE A CHRISTIAN LIKE THE BIBLE TELLS US TO BE. DO NOT PASS JUDGEMENT ON OTHERS, FOR YOU WILL BE JUDGED. AND LASTLY, CHECK YOURSELF AND MAKE SURE YOU ARE WHO YOU SAY YOU ARE. I'm tired of living in the world that hates Christians, why? Because of people like you giving us a bad rep.

Kasteil, If you need anything pm me or message me, I may not agree with everythig. But, I want to show you the love God has given me. I love you very much. And I pray that God may shine upon your life every second of everyday.
God, just give her strength to carry on, when she falls God be right behind her to catch her. God when she has no more strength to carry on, God wrap her in your arms and let her know that You are with her. God let her know not to lean on christians God, we will fail her. All her focus should be on is you God. And Lord whatever your will is convict her heart, and let it be known what your plan is for her. We thank you and we praise you in Jesus' name AMEN.
 
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Redeemed79

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Oh no dont do that!! Hey I'm new on here and I don't think badly of you at all, if i did I would have to think badly of every christian i know...none of them being perfect and all. I'm sure if they read the bible correctly and openmindedly they will see that when God lists homosexuality in the bible it is not listed alone. God's grace is sufficient for all, in all. You just walk and talk with God about whats happening in your life. It is certainly not for us to judge you otherwise we undermine God's gift of grace. The free gift.
 
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Redeemed79

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But he doesnt say not to cause another to stumble either which is what you do when you talk AT and not TO.
 
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hey quit talking about blueteardrop like that that is not very nice at all i got her back
 
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Redeemed79

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sorry i meant to say he does say not to cause others to stumble
 
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yahweh_is4me

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hey quit talking about blueteardrop like that that is not very nice at all i got her back
OK I have seen so much gay bashing where is the love at ? so many Christians are so preaching & bashing and that is not of GOD at all .. Preach in Love ...and there are so many other issues be concern about than being gay !
 
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Jemmie

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As Christians, its easy for us to judge. I believe that the Bible says being gay is a sin. (so many people already refenced this i won't repeat it.) But so is adultry, stealing, lying, hating others (which is murdering someone in your heart!!!) and so many others. All sins are the same in Gods eyes and nobody is perfect. So we condem gay people... but what about the lusts that are in our own hearts for people of the opposite gender? How is that different?
Blueteardrop, you've said you are new Christian. And being Christian dosen't mean that all sins/desires/whatever will magicly disapear. A speaker come to my church once who is ex-gay.(his name is Greg something, maybe u could look him up) After he became a Christian, he still had those feelings. It took lots of prayer and forgiving his father before those feelings went away.
I don't mean to preach. Everything i say i say in love. I don't mean to pry, but maybe there is a reason you feel this way? Were you abused by father/mother/boyfriend/anybody? if you were u should find someone older that you trust.
Maybe you weren't, you just feel this way and you say you were born this way? Well, i disagree, but only you can find the answers you seek. We can't forse our answeres, as good intentioned as they may be, on you.
i wish you the best on your journey with God. And i hope the rest of us can remove the planks from our own eyes before we remove the specks in our brothers/sisters's eyes. With love :)!

(oooo btw, tell us something else about you! i see you're a poet! so am i! don't let your orientation define everything you are! if our sins defined us... well... the world would be a pretty sad place.)
 
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Jemmie

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How does one live as a follower of Christ when they are being attacked for being gay. Is it so wrong that God has made me this way? Yet you tell me that God is grateful for the way i was made. What have i done but be myself around you, open, honest, and respectful. I am now regretting my decision on becoming a Christian because of the comments i get. Do i just delete this site from my favourites page and forget that i ever came here? Because that's how im feeling right now. Hurt, destroyed....rejected; from the so called followers of Jesus.
also, i'm sorry you feel this way. But don't give up just yet! Christians who treat you this way give the rest of us a bad name. We may have our disagreements, but we still love you and accept you! ignore anybody here who tells you different and report anyone who puts you down because of this. Give the rest of us a chance to love you like Jesus would! *hugs*
 
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JMans1187

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to think that JESUS condons homosexuality..has caused......years of pain...for some...


and...if you think I'm gonna white wash around the BASIC DOCTRINE...

you need to go talk to OBAMA...

I AIN"T HIM...

I"M not running for anything..

wouldn't walk backwards for some of those hypocritcal..."postions"

tired of puppets....who have no ....(.can I say this on a christian site.....??)


BALLS...

to tell it like it is..

whas with all the government "SECRETES"


!!!!!! they work for the "PEOPLE" !!!!!

I think its time..for some "TRANSPARENCY"

like PROMISED...

(rolls eyes up )...

and sighs
So let me get this straight.....
the day you turned your life over to serve God you changed EVERY detail of your daily life? You didnt struggle with anything that would be considered ungodly, or a.....dare i say..SIN!!! Jesus loves us for who we are, yes homosexuality is mentioned in the bible and clearly stated as a sin.

I know how about this, since you have no sin, throw the first stone!
 
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JMans1187

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Or I know, I aam about to have my third child out of wedlock, care to bash me? Look down on me? I used and abused drugs, another sin to attack me for!

We need to support our fellow Christians, help them and guide them! That is why I joined this site! I am not yet strong in my faith, and stuggle! I SIN ON A DAILY BASIS! But Jesus still loves me!
 
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Lyndies

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Or I know, I aam about to have my third child out of wedlock, care to bash me? Look down on me? I used and abused drugs, another sin to attack me for!

We need to support our fellow Christians, help them and guide them! That is why I joined this site! I am not yet strong in my faith, and stuggle! I SIN ON A DAILY BASIS! But Jesus still loves me!
I agree. :] We all struggle with something.
 
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juspekatzus

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our heavenly father does not hate you, his word tells us that he can not look upon sin, for we all have sinned and fallen short of Gods glory. That is why he made a new covenant with us by giving us his only begotten son Jesus. When we call upon the name of his son, inviting him to come in , he washes every sin we ever committed away with the blood he shed on the cross at Calvery, remembering them no more. He also gives us a new life, the one he has planned for you. Jesus accepts you right where you are. He will put the right path before you. Being born again you will fall in love with him, has you and he commune together. His spirit will comfort you and show you what is right. Do not judge anyone here for trying to tell you what they think is right, for they knowing him, are simply trying to obey him. for he tells us in these last days men will give up the natural of being with a woman, to lay down with strange flesh. He also tells us women will also give up that which is natural ,by laying with each other. our fathers word warns us not to take pleasure in those who do such things. blueteardrop please remember, all things work together for good for those who love our Lord Jesus.
 
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spindrift

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Hey email me back ... Kasteil please would you?
 
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AnandaHya

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How does one live as a follower of Christ when they are being attacked for being gay. Is it so wrong that God has made me this way? Yet you tell me that God is grateful for the way i was made. What have i done but be myself around you, open, honest, and respectful. I am now regretting my decision on becoming a Christian because of the comments i get. Do i just delete this site from my favourites page and forget that i ever came here? Because that's how im feeling right now. Hurt, destroyed....rejected; from the so called followers of Jesus.
that's just awful that you should feel rejected. God made you to be a wonderful person. there are things about each of us that we don't like and that falls short of the glory of God. we all have sins and things we need to work on fixing and striving towards God. I'm sorry that people made you feel that way. but remember no matter what God still loves you.

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