Husband and Wife Reconciliation

Shalom! May the peace of God be with you. Some 3 yrs back I requested for a prayer from this forum regarding my relationship with my husband..Dec 8 2010 when he called me on my phone(since im in Dubai working and he's left in Manila) and told me that what we had was over and done..He no longer wanted to stay in our so tiring relationship and my pride took over me and answered, "Ok, fine!" So that was it..I was so helpless and devastated..I did not know what to do...I tried to make myself look as if nothing happened..But my heart became so hard and bitterness and sadness manifested..I got tired of pulling up myself together..I remember that I have a God who is more than my problem..I surrendered everything to Him..I prayed to God to forgive me for giving up on my relationship which He entrusted to me..For letting my pride took over..And to forgive my husband for having an affair with another woman..At first I thought everything was my husband's fault, but God made me realize that I needed to make some changes in me..He taught me to remain patient in my afflictions, strong in my faith that He will handle everything and that He is in total control..Indeed God heard my prayer..Just recently my husband gave me a call and asked for forgiveness..And to my surprise, I did not find myself nagging and angry at him...I felt that I had so much love to give that I was ready to forgive him..Others might think that I was crazy but I know our Lord God can heal all hurts and wounds..That Right here and now God is ready to touch our lives to start all over..Thank you Lord...I hope that thru this nay we be a blesaing to those couples whom you have joined together..Pray and wait on the Lord!

Amen. I am so glad that you shared this. I pray that the Lord continues to heal and join you both together stronger than ever.

Thank you very much..I would like to encourage couples who are undergoing rough times..God is able to restore everything including love and respect..

Really encouraging and beautiful testimony and I'm really happy for you. Praying that God will strengthen your marriage so much more and that peace and joy will know no bounds between you two.

Thank You..God bless you..

Roams 12:12..Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer..

Amen , thanks for posting and giving hope

Thanks for posting. Very encouraging. I just got officialy divorce cause my wife wanted it. The thing is i left her 4 years ago even tho i always love her but our mariage was so fake. No real love was between us. Only selfishness GOD cannot honor SELFISH people under is name. Anyway i still pray for her. I decide about 8 month ago to start to obey GOD words. Things started to change and miracle happend. I still love my wife but she dont seem to want anything with me. I hope GOD will change her heart and keep working in mine to fix our mariage

Hi Jason75...Actually before everything went fine, i did everything I could but it seemed that nothing was going my favour..But when I surrendered everything to the Lord, whatever the results would be, I just clung on His promise that He knew what is best for me . Not the better but the best for me. The result might not be the thing on my mind and I expected, but He made myself ready for whatever plans He had for me. AND I assure you His plans are perfect..Allow Him to do His good and perfect will in your life..

Amen, Jadeline!
My husband moved out 5 months ago. He has severe behavior issues. Sometimes I can hardly stand how much it hurts... But, I have turned it all over to God. I still hold hope, but I have given it to God to do what He will. I trust that WHATEVER His plan is, it will prosper me and my family, as long as I keep Him the center of my heart and life. It is hard to let go of a marriage, but I know God will keep his promises to me. It seems impossible on earthly terms that anything could actually heal my husband, but I know God can do it, if it fits with His plan. I was encouraged to read your post. Praise God for His loving power and faithfullness. I will stay in faith and await His plans for me and my children. God bless you and all those who read this and need comfort. Your sister in Christ, Gail

That's amazing thank God... me and my wife are going though a very difficult time right now... If anyone were to look at how things are they would say it's completely done i mean she is seeing another guy... but I'm trying to hang in there and i pray every single day... I'm happy to hear everything worked out with you and your husband!!

Hi Sister Gail..God is in control..yes it seems impossible but if it fits His perfect plan it will come to you..Let God do his work in you and in your husband. I know that He is preparing something special for you..just be ready to receive his blessings!

Thank you Brother..God is preparing something for you too..Just walk in obedience..He may be preparing your heart and your wife's..He is in control..He loves you more than anyone does.

By the way, we did not have any communication whatsoever for 3 long years..I waited for God 's perfect timing and it was all worth it! Praise be to God!