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Last night my mom told me about commandements to build a courtship/marriage based on God, its so interesting when I see my mom's figure and how is she practice everyday
A couple's ten commandements:
1. You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind; and you shall love your fiance/spouse as yourself.
2. You shall not make your spouse/fiance into an idol, but you shall love, honor, respect and submit to her/him as unto the Lord.
3. You shall not take your fiance/spouse's name in vain through gossip, slander, criticism, complaint or mockery; but you shall bless him/her both privately and publicly.
4. You shall work heartily as directed by the Lord and your husband, not by your own ideas of what should be done. You shall not be so busy working that you neglect to get alone with God every day. During this quiet time, you shall pray diligently for your fiance/spouse. Be willing to put aside work in order to "play" when your fiance/spouse asks you.
5. You shall honor your mother and father and your spiritual leader who are alert to the condition of your lives and work under the strict supervision of God. Contribute to the joy of their leadership, not its drudgery, but you shall not elevate their position or opinions above your fiance/spouse's.
6. You shall not resent or revile or hate your fiance/spouse, but you shall grant him/her grace, forgiveness and mercy and haseed love.
7. You shall not commit adultery, nor shall you think lustfully toward another man/woman; but you shall thank God for your fiance/spouse and be pleased with him/her.
8. You shall not steal from your spouse/fiance. You shall not steal his/her courtship/marriage by threatening divorce/break up. Nor steal his/her by leaving his/her alone all the time. Nor steal his/her time by placing unnecessary demands on him/her. Nor steal his/her joy by complaining. Nor steal his/her peace by endless nagging. For woman Nor steal glances from other men by wearing provocative clothes and causing them to stumble. This defrauds your man of an honorable woman, the other man of pure thoughts, and the other man's wife of her husband's faithfulness
9. You shall not lie to your fiance/spouse, but you shall speak the truth in love. You shall practice a quiet and gentle spirit.
10. You shall not covet another woman/man, friends, house, looks, wardrobe, possessions, talents and gifts, ministry, or any other thing that is him/hers; but you shall be content with all God has given to you.
God bless
A couple's ten commandements:
1. You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind; and you shall love your fiance/spouse as yourself.
2. You shall not make your spouse/fiance into an idol, but you shall love, honor, respect and submit to her/him as unto the Lord.
3. You shall not take your fiance/spouse's name in vain through gossip, slander, criticism, complaint or mockery; but you shall bless him/her both privately and publicly.
4. You shall work heartily as directed by the Lord and your husband, not by your own ideas of what should be done. You shall not be so busy working that you neglect to get alone with God every day. During this quiet time, you shall pray diligently for your fiance/spouse. Be willing to put aside work in order to "play" when your fiance/spouse asks you.
5. You shall honor your mother and father and your spiritual leader who are alert to the condition of your lives and work under the strict supervision of God. Contribute to the joy of their leadership, not its drudgery, but you shall not elevate their position or opinions above your fiance/spouse's.
6. You shall not resent or revile or hate your fiance/spouse, but you shall grant him/her grace, forgiveness and mercy and haseed love.
7. You shall not commit adultery, nor shall you think lustfully toward another man/woman; but you shall thank God for your fiance/spouse and be pleased with him/her.
8. You shall not steal from your spouse/fiance. You shall not steal his/her courtship/marriage by threatening divorce/break up. Nor steal his/her by leaving his/her alone all the time. Nor steal his/her time by placing unnecessary demands on him/her. Nor steal his/her joy by complaining. Nor steal his/her peace by endless nagging. For woman Nor steal glances from other men by wearing provocative clothes and causing them to stumble. This defrauds your man of an honorable woman, the other man of pure thoughts, and the other man's wife of her husband's faithfulness
9. You shall not lie to your fiance/spouse, but you shall speak the truth in love. You shall practice a quiet and gentle spirit.
10. You shall not covet another woman/man, friends, house, looks, wardrobe, possessions, talents and gifts, ministry, or any other thing that is him/hers; but you shall be content with all God has given to you.
God bless
