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Today my four year old daughter came into the kitchen while I was making dinner and grabbed my legs and asked me the question I'd been dreading for a long time now.
"Will we ever get a new mommy?"
It was so out of nowhere that I just kind of stammered and looked at her. I'd always thought about the void that would be in her life after her mother died that couldn't be filled. I hadn't really considered her ever asking if I would ever get married or into a relationship again.
I told her that if I did find somebody new it wouldn't be for a very long time. I could tell that she was upset because I think now that she's getting bigger she wants a mom to do "mommy stuff" and me to do "daddy stuff".
Any advice on how I should go about talking to her about this?
"Will we ever get a new mommy?"
It was so out of nowhere that I just kind of stammered and looked at her. I'd always thought about the void that would be in her life after her mother died that couldn't be filled. I hadn't really considered her ever asking if I would ever get married or into a relationship again.
I told her that if I did find somebody new it wouldn't be for a very long time. I could tell that she was upset because I think now that she's getting bigger she wants a mom to do "mommy stuff" and me to do "daddy stuff".
Any advice on how I should go about talking to her about this?