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Hi. I am feeling really unhappy and angry, the result is me all way's picking a fight with my husband on weekends when he needs his rest from work. I feel really ashamed of my behaviour. I think I have valid reasons to be angry. My husband and I have not had an easy path to marriage. And after marriage it got worse. My husband family has caused a lot of fights and distrust. When I fell pregnant my husband was so cold. Cause I stood up to his mother controlling ways. My mother law used to hide food from me when pregnant. And did lot of other ugly stuff. Why would I want to visit a women for a month so she can me feel like I am unwanted. And terrible wife and mother. My husband held it against me . So for a year after birth of my son he did not sleep with me. First time after a year is when I let his mother keep my son.
we went to therapy and counselling. And all seemed to work. I fell pregnant again. We then went to my husband brother wedding. Where I started to bleed. He took me to the hospital. And was cruel and cold all the way. While I cried.i asked to go home to rest. He said no I need to go to the wedding. I lost the baby. He was ugly towards me . All he cared a bout was I ruined his brother wedding. I lost my baby. And he kicked me when I needed him. But I prayed and I stayed. Then he eventually gets leave after a year of working late and studying and I am running the house. He decides he wants to go stay with his parent. It was horrible. She was a her same nasty self. He promised me a week alone . But he spent the week there. Now his working late and studying.
What about me.
He says his sorry and going to try now.
but I cant help but want to fight him. Its been 7 year's of this hell. His so cold.
What do I do.
I pray and cry to our farther. But pain and humiliation wont go away. I want my husband to admit how he hurt me. And he was wrong.
I need advice what to do.
I am no saint. But I deserve to feel like my husband loves me.
I need help. Because I am tempted to have an affair.
we went to therapy and counselling. And all seemed to work. I fell pregnant again. We then went to my husband brother wedding. Where I started to bleed. He took me to the hospital. And was cruel and cold all the way. While I cried.i asked to go home to rest. He said no I need to go to the wedding. I lost the baby. He was ugly towards me . All he cared a bout was I ruined his brother wedding. I lost my baby. And he kicked me when I needed him. But I prayed and I stayed. Then he eventually gets leave after a year of working late and studying and I am running the house. He decides he wants to go stay with his parent. It was horrible. She was a her same nasty self. He promised me a week alone . But he spent the week there. Now his working late and studying.
What about me.
He says his sorry and going to try now.
but I cant help but want to fight him. Its been 7 year's of this hell. His so cold.
What do I do.
I pray and cry to our farther. But pain and humiliation wont go away. I want my husband to admit how he hurt me. And he was wrong.
I need advice what to do.
I am no saint. But I deserve to feel like my husband loves me.
I need help. Because I am tempted to have an affair.