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I have been dating someone for 6 months. She is aware I am a christian. She was brought up in a methodist household, and her father was the organist there until his death 2 years ago. In his last years she believes he was treated very badly by the "christians" there, and has therefore a particular view of christians. My tension is that I do not want to dishonour God, and that despite the fact that she means the world to me, I have little peace about the relationship. I have talked to God about her and I believe she is the one yet, she does not want to get married, she has some very worldly beliefs and behaviours too. She has a three year old daughter that means the world to her, and I am priviledged to be able to take her to sunday school every weekend, although she has at present set her face against going to church. I know in the christian walk life often resembles a jigsaw puzzle and it's difficult to see how things fit together. My last few conversations with God have taken the angle of being more relaxed about how it will turn out and clearly to trust him. I don't want to throw the baby out with the bath water, and end the relationship which has most of everything I have ever hoped for.
Any thoughts would be appreciated.
Any thoughts would be appreciated.