I have been married for 12 years. I was lost when we got married and now By the grace of God found. It has been five years and I have grown spiritual and teach my youth class on Wed. nights. I have a almost 6 year old daughter that I have been rising up in church. The thing is my husband is not a christain and he was rised in the Cathical church. He tries to encourge our daughter not to go to church and especially my church because he does not like the people that go there. Now I go to a Bapists church. I pray for him everyday and night. My daughter ask why her daddy don't go to church and she goes to prayer with me and prays for him. She see him drink and prays in his face and hearing for him to quit drinking and going to church. He will not come to any church programs we have to watch his only child. This has caused alot of hard feeling between us all the time because we are very active in church. This made him mean worded with us. Is their anymore I can do but to continue to pray for him.His words are hurting his child when he push her away with ugly words.
graceandfaith:
The best advise I can give you is. Yes, keep praying the LORD will open his heart, but your prayers can not be for his heart to be converted so life will be better for you and your daughter. You must pray that he would be changed for the glory of God.
We can not ask things of God to be consumed upon our own lusts.
James 4:3 (KJV)
3 Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume
it upon your lusts.
When you pray for him do it in private, not to be heard of him or others.
Matthew 6:6-8 (KJV)
6 But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly.
7 But when ye pray, use not vain repetitions, as the heathen
do: for they think that they shall be heard for their much speaking.
8 Be not ye therefore like unto them: for your Father knoweth what things ye have need of, before ye ask him.
Also live a Christ like life in your home be that example of love Jesus taught us.
1 Peter 3:1-4 (KJV)
1 Likewise, ye wives,
be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
2 While they behold your chaste conversation
coupled with fear.
3 Whose adorning let it not be that outward
adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel;
4 But
let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible,
even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.
This word conversation is speeking of our life.
CONVERSATION, n.
1. General course of manners; behavior; deportment; especially as it respects morals.
Do not try to push your faith in God upon him, this will only make him meaner.
Also understand that as we come to Christ there will always be division among homes friends, family, co-workers....
Luke 12:51-53 (KJV)
51 Suppose ye that I am come to give peace on earth? I tell you, Nay; but rather division:
52 For from henceforth there shall be five in one house divided, three against two, and two against three.
53 The father shall be divided against the son, and the son against the father; the mother against the daughter, and the daughter against the mother; the mother in law against her daughter in law, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.
The division comes naturely as light and darkness can not dwell at the same time.
Most of all your love for the LORD, Christ Jesus must be greater than your love for another. Even greater than your love for your husband or your daughter.
Jesus Christ must be your first love.
Let me leave you with one last thing.
May the LORD give you and your daughter the strenght to come through this harsh trial, and torment Satan has brought upon you, seeking to accuse you before God.
2 Thessalonians 3:5 (KJV)
5 And the Lord direct your hearts into the love of God, and into the patient waiting for Christ.
Sincerely, Gracethroughfaith