Alone But Not Alone

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Apr 30, 2012
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God revealed to me that I don't need to work hard to choose a guy of the desires of my heart for myself, but that he will grant me the guy i deserve his choice in due time. I thought I knew how to choose a guy for me, but I was wrong. I really need to just sit back and leave it up to God to bring a man into my life at the moment that is right for the both of us. I keep getting impaitnet and wondering okay God when, when, but Now I realize that I really need to focus on myself and God and My son fully. Sometimes it is difficult and I get discourage but I really need to learn to trust in him fully that he will reveal to me when the time is right for me to settle down.

I had found a guy who I thought was a good choice, but when I voiced my opinions about how a relationship should be and how sex needs to be saved for marriage. He didn't agree. I gave it a week. He ignored me and didn't say a word when usually he texts me everyday. After I prayed and prayed about it I realized that something in my heart kept telling me he isn't for me, he isn't the one. So i told him the news. I know that he will find someone and I know that it may hurt but I can't ignore my heart.
 
Feb 10, 2008
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God bless you! I think you will find many here who can relate to your story. The lonliness is there, but with things of God comes a great peace. Be patient! :)