An Unfaithful Wife

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Ariel82

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Kenny, the church doesn't have a responsiblity to step in and fix your marriage. three times at church is not a strong relationship to have before confronting someone about so deep and serious a topic as returning to a broken marriage. \

It would be different if your ex wife reached out to others at the church and they refused to have that heart to heart but you expecting it to happen because you want it to happen is unreasonable. also I don't think it would work. I don't think she would listen to a complete stranger she only meet three times telling her how to live her life. She doesn't listen to YOU and YOU are/were her husband. why would she listen to a stranger?

I'm sitting here wondering if you really want your wife back or just someone to help deal with your rebellious sons?

one of your responses said that you were NOT going to be alone and implies that if you don't think you can get your wife back you will find someone else to take her place?

with kids under 10 years old and you retirement age.....makes me think that your wife was a lot younger than you were?

(since most women can't have kids at 55 years of age. )

so perhaps she didn't really view your relationship as a "marriage" more than another type of prositution.

If you really want to help your wife, I would have her undergo counseling and learn to value her life and her body more than just a means to make money. I would also treat her as a beloved daughter of God instead of how she seems to be used to being treated: as an object men use to fulfill their lusts and desires.

i'm glad you didn't let your sons get sent to the Philippines because they could have been put into the "family business" and been pressed into prosistution.
 
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Iluv_Jesus

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God bless you dear friend. Something like this should not befall honest men such as yourself. Leave it to Jesus. Give your spouse the time needed to realise her mistakes. She should acknowledge on Her own what she did against you was wrong. Going after a lost sheep in the family is not wrong. You and your wife could benefit from counseling. What she did was wrong. May God show you the path towards the future. Always remain faithful to God's word and be a good father to your children. They would need at least one of their parents to be strong for them. Praise Jesus.
 
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Iluv_Jesus

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I would suggest you look for help from a professional counselor who would help conversation between you and your wife possible. Tell your wife what you want from her. Be direct. Pray to God. God bless you and show you the way.
 
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silverdollar

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but how is the guy's wife any different from the sinners Jesus called to in the bible, repent.
it seems like she needs to repent and be forgiven by Jesus before you do all that nice counselling and whatever. it seems like serious sin. i dont think you can sin like that and be saved. unless you repent for sure. you love her i know but she needs to be right with the Lord, right?
 
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jangel

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May 12, 2010
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Ariel82 said:
i'm glad you didn't let your sons get sent to the Philippines because they could have been put into the "family business" and been pressed into prosistution.
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That statement is harsh, judgmental, unfair and not right.
 
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isaria

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Very sad when people are unfaithful to eachother and to their marriage.


One man in neighbourhood i once lived in spread lies about a woman he was married to.
He was wellknown in neighbourhood and she was from another country and disempowered and pretty alone.
He said she was on drugs and prostitute and she truly was not.
She was set up to look and seem that way.

If she cheated on you, gave you std and prostituted aswell as was so money orientated that she indicated thats the reason she married you then i pray you will find someone of better appreciation for you who will be a better wife for and to you.


Some woman and men marry for the wrong reasons.
If a woman or man is shoppaholic on a spouses money and it is their money then i think thats very disrespectful.
Sometimes the spouses are in on it.
Some mariages are actually based upon this.
A man said once he met a woman and she said she would marry him and look good and make him feel good if he giveher money and she wanted be paid to marry him.
That does not sound like a sacred union of marriage before god.

You may have two children that you love from a marriage and can visit and socialise with in some way maybe.
 
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