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All is good! Just stating how I felt.
I try to avoid things like that-but when someone asks me same question over and over again-I just EXPLODE!
What I have learned in life is that there are some ppl which will never understand or listen to you-so there is no point to argue. That's when I just let it go-and let them grow up. But I must admit I'm really stubborn.
What I have learned in life is that there are some ppl which will never understand or listen to you-so there is no point to argue. That's when I just let it go-and let them grow up. But I must admit I'm really stubborn.
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Believe it or not, i don't like arguing. Though it seems i often find myself in argumentative situations. My take on the forums, especially is i try to stick to 2-3 posts in a disagreement, after that i stop going to the post. Usually. There have been some occasions where i haven't followed through, but i'm still teaching myself.
I'm not a fan of debating either. I've done all the arguing and debating i want in my life. Now i just want to tell people what to do and have them agree, if not they can move on =P haha
I'm not a fan of debating either. I've done all the arguing and debating i want in my life. Now i just want to tell people what to do and have them agree, if not they can move on =P haha
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I always say "if the horse is dead , dismount"
I will not argue or compete.. Ive learned to
Let go of certain reigns real fast and dismount ..
I don't care about winning or scoring or I'm right and you're wrong..
I'm the type if there is an issue and both people see it . Look at the issue and what is causing it .( this part takes maturity self control and the ability to look at ones self). perhaps it's a wrong perception , behavior or a response . I find that listening is better before talking... And afterwards, responding with care and attention to the other persons needs is better then reacting in self defense ..
Usually I got angry because there was a behavior that I needed to change and simply didn't want to do the legwork to do it ..
It was more about my comfort than your comfort .. my needs instead of your needs .. Takes two mature people to dance such an eloquent dance together .. when I come across it in couples I be sure and tell then how rare they are.. It's a beautiful thing to see when they get outside themselves and make the other one shine instead of shining their own light ..
Ya! if the horse is dead Absolutely dismount
I will not argue or compete.. Ive learned to
Let go of certain reigns real fast and dismount ..
I don't care about winning or scoring or I'm right and you're wrong..
I'm the type if there is an issue and both people see it . Look at the issue and what is causing it .( this part takes maturity self control and the ability to look at ones self). perhaps it's a wrong perception , behavior or a response . I find that listening is better before talking... And afterwards, responding with care and attention to the other persons needs is better then reacting in self defense ..
Usually I got angry because there was a behavior that I needed to change and simply didn't want to do the legwork to do it ..
It was more about my comfort than your comfort .. my needs instead of your needs .. Takes two mature people to dance such an eloquent dance together .. when I come across it in couples I be sure and tell then how rare they are.. It's a beautiful thing to see when they get outside themselves and make the other one shine instead of shining their own light ..
Ya! if the horse is dead Absolutely dismount