I'm always attracting men in relationships, anyone has any idea why that may be? Should I be avoiding talking to them? I do it in a friendly way but it suddenly leads to them giving me compliments etc. I also have this guy in a relationship with a kid that constantly texts me, I reply because I feel rude when I don't. How can I get him to stop talking me to me? Should I ignore him? What's the nice way to go about it? I tried ignoring him yesterday and I got another text saying 'ignorant' as he knew I was ignoring him as it says on the app we use, he constantly rings me too, I was once in love with this guy, still do have a bit of feelings for him but I love God more than anyone and want to stay away from anything that can effect my relationship with God, single Men I attract always want sex, or are not Christians. I have asked God for a Christian man and I believe he will give me that, really need some advice, thank you in advance for your help
Yeah. You're only 18. So not exactly a big rush for you to meet anyone.
And yes, of course stay away from these men. Why would you keep talking to, or putting yourself in proximity to, these unavailable men? And then you keep talking to them even after they hit on you. So is it really any surprise that it keeps going? Many people shy away from one on one friendships with married people. You, instead, text and possible talk on the phone or whatever else with them.
And if you're 18 it makes sense you're mostly getting guys wanting sex. Even at older ages its common, but especially now.
If you want to stop attracting married/taken guys then stop spending time with them. Stop texting them. Stop interacting with them.
You're worried about being 'rude' to this guy. Yet this is a guy that seems to be hinting at trying to cheat on his girlfriend with you. Using you. Yet you don't want to be 'rude' by having nothing to do with him? What sense does that make? He's being dishonest, deceptive, cheating and using and you're worried about being rude because you don't want to be involved in that.
Really all of the answers to these problems are obvious. Stop talking with married/taken men. And tell those men who are, and are hitting on you, goodbye. Problem solved.
Far as the type of single guys, well, we live in that kind of a world. Its going to happen. Perhaps make your stance more clear about no sex and you will get less of them.
