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GreenNnice: Do you believe God will put marriage into your life when you are not yet ready?
That statement is a bit of an oxymoron in my opinion. I mean if God intends for us to marry at a certain time, who are we to disagree with the perfect creator who knows everything and chooses to be father is us sinful silly people, I mean seriously! But if you're not 100% for marrying that person then don't date/court them in the first place! Who are we to say that our plans for our lives should overide God's plan for us? I mean its the height of arrogance to think we know better than God.
If you had told me when I was 16 that I was going to be married at 23 to a foreigner and move to another country, I would have laughed my head off and the ridiculousness of it. But who was I to know what would happen. At that point in my life, I was convinced I was going to be married to my highschool sweetheart who Id been happily but ignorantly in sin with. When I finally became single again, I had plans to be contentedly single for God for a good number of years while finishing my degree and building my career. Little did I know I was going to meet my future husband 3 weeks after making that "life plan" for God.
If you had told me when I was 16 that I was going to be married at 23 to a foreigner and move to another country, I would have laughed my head off and the ridiculousness of it. But who was I to know what would happen. At that point in my life, I was convinced I was going to be married to my highschool sweetheart who Id been happily but ignorantly in sin with. When I finally became single again, I had plans to be contentedly single for God for a good number of years while finishing my degree and building my career. Little did I know I was going to meet my future husband 3 weeks after making that "life plan" for God.