well, so i've heard men like to go into their caves, I read it in a book and heard it from a a pastor.
I had a friend who would often confuse me by making plans with me and then breaking them or saying he would call and then never doing it.
And at times some of us want to reach out when this happens. But you can't always do something.
So, if you are strong and know him well, and have support such as a family, friends, a church or both of you are really serious about making a life together then maybe it could work.
I don't know the details of the situation.
But this is just what my basic knowledge tells me.
And if you are young, make sure that no emotional, to mental turmoil makes you suffer or age needlessly OK