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Hi folks, as you can see, I'm Jenn the caregiver. I'm really burnt out. Tonight I feel like crawling into bed and never coming out. My husband has severe arthritis which is still unknown what exactly it is. Every month...on average 1 to 2 weeks, he will be in bed. My sister lives with us and she works full time. I'm a full time student, "mom", "pet mom", sister, wife..etc. How do I even begin to explain how I feel. I'm so drained and I'm reminded again and again that God will never give me what I can't handle. I'm broke financially. My marriage is way down the list as my husband is the main focus. My needs aren't met so I know i must come to God to have my needs met. It's so hard because I am losing hope....... I really did believe that 5 years of marriage, I'd have a baby by now...a job and he would be working too....things really has been nothing but a nightmare. I feel like a zombie going throuh motions of life. I hate that feeling. I feel alive when I listen to worship songs but I need more. I need fellow christians to keep in touch with. People come and go in my life. People are afraid of who my family and I are. For one, my sister is Deaf. She suffers from schzioaffective disorder. I'm hard of hearing....sign language is my primary language. My husband has arthritis and borderline personality disorder and every known anxiety disorder. On top of everything, I do not know what to do anymore since I seem to fail at budgeting out money. I'm so sick of myself. I can't explain myself to my sis and husband because they're in the mind set of the world of "themselves". It's about them. Ugh, I"m tired of whining and complaining here. Off I go.