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Re: Conversation stoppers on that FIRST date..."What? You just told me 'that?"
No, actually Oncefallen you said that quite well. You are correct that there are some of us who ill never have what is termed a "perfect" body. Being of German decent, my frame would never allow me to get into a size six even if I weighted 100lbs. Thank you for the reminder that sometimes what may seem to me to be men acknowledging my claims about myself, could also be men contradicting my words and in a sense complimenting me.
I'm probably digging myself a hole by commenting on this, but I'm accustomed to being in that position. To me there's a big difference between "full figured," "curvy," and overweight. Most women don't have the body style glamorized in women's magazines and they feel as if they are "fat" because they don't.
I've known plenty of full figured, curvy women that were far from "fat" they were born with a frame that did not allow them to achieve the stereotypical "perfect" body.
I've known plenty of full figured, curvy women that were far from "fat" they were born with a frame that did not allow them to achieve the stereotypical "perfect" body.