There is one verse towards married men that is constantly used, but I don't think the weight can ever be borne down enough. "Love your wives as Christ loved the church". For the single male I think the words of Jesus are imperative, love your enemies, love your neighbors as yourself, take up your cross daily and follow. A brief paraphrase on the rich young ruler, get rid of all you have and follow Jesus.
A virtuous man loves violently, sacrifices his own life, and is a disciple to the one true God.