OK, this one is complicated for me, so i really need your advice on this...
This weekend a very good friend of mine invited me and a couple of my other friends to his house. We're a selected group of mates, that have known eachother practically since primary school. Usually we just meet up at one of our homes before we go out, but this time my friend wanted us to stay a little longer. His family already knew, but now he felt the need to come out to us too.
I´m the only christian in my friends group, but that was never a problem. They respect me, and try for instance not to curse in my presence. The fact that my friend wants to live a gay life was quickly accepted too, but i´m having a lot of problems with that it. I mean, i can put up with a lot of things, but isn´t this just going just a step too far? I really don´t want to lose him, and as i far as i know he doesn´t want to lose my friendship too. I prefer to hate the sin, and not the sinner, but this could well break our friendship apart.
What if he decides to bring a boyfriend with when we go out? It has never been a problem if we brought our girlfriends with, so i guess my friends will accept that too. I´m afraid that my standpoint in this will also make me lose the other friends of my friends group, if they, with their liberal norms, choose sides. Ofcourse i have friends in my local church too, but i really don´t want to lose my old friends too...
This weekend a very good friend of mine invited me and a couple of my other friends to his house. We're a selected group of mates, that have known eachother practically since primary school. Usually we just meet up at one of our homes before we go out, but this time my friend wanted us to stay a little longer. His family already knew, but now he felt the need to come out to us too.
I´m the only christian in my friends group, but that was never a problem. They respect me, and try for instance not to curse in my presence. The fact that my friend wants to live a gay life was quickly accepted too, but i´m having a lot of problems with that it. I mean, i can put up with a lot of things, but isn´t this just going just a step too far? I really don´t want to lose him, and as i far as i know he doesn´t want to lose my friendship too. I prefer to hate the sin, and not the sinner, but this could well break our friendship apart.
What if he decides to bring a boyfriend with when we go out? It has never been a problem if we brought our girlfriends with, so i guess my friends will accept that too. I´m afraid that my standpoint in this will also make me lose the other friends of my friends group, if they, with their liberal norms, choose sides. Ofcourse i have friends in my local church too, but i really don´t want to lose my old friends too...