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KDOG

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I need some advice here, my and my girlfriend were having a fun night and sadly one thing led to another and we had sex... I didn't want this to happen but sadly it did and I can't do anything about it. I just need some advice on how to handle this. I love her and I don't want things to escalate and we are working things out, any advice or help??
 
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Pilaa

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In your thread its already clear you regret it. Pray to God for forgiveness and you shall be forgiven. No need for any escalation, if i think about myself, i sin everyday and i always think: next day better. God is full of love, dont forget.
 
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Question: "Why did Jesus tell people to ‘go and sin no more’ if sinlessness is impossible?"

Answer:
There are two instances in the New Testament when Jesus told someone to “sin no more,” and they were each under very different circumstances. The first is when Jesus healed an invalid by the Pool of Bethesda (John 5:1–15). Afterward, Jesus found the man and told him, “See, you are well again. Stop sinning or something worse may happen to you” (verse 14). It is clear that Jesus knew what had caused the man’s condition. We are not told the specifics of the man’s physical impairment, but the context implies that it was caused by sinful choices. Jesus warned the man that he had been given a second chance and that he should make better choices. If the man returned to his sinful behavior, he would have wasted the opportunity Jesus gave him to live whole and forgiven.

The second instance is in the account of the woman taken in the act of adultery (John 8:3–11). When the woman’s accusers brought her before Jesus, expecting Him to pronounce judgment, He told them that the one who was without sin should throw the first stone. One by one, the condemning crowd left. Then Jesus told the woman, “Neither do I condemn you. Go and sin no more” (verse 11). She had been caught. She was guilty. She did deserve stoning according to the Law of Moses (Leviticus 20:10;Deuteronomy 22:22). But the religious leaders who had dragged her there had no concern for holiness. They were trying to trap Jesus into saying that the Law did not matter (verse 6).

Jesus often reminded those religious leaders that He had not come to abolish the Law but to fulfill it (Matthew 5:17). He, as God, was the Author of the Law (2 Timothy 3:16). The Pharisees focused on the letter of the Law but missed the true spirit of it, which is given in Galatians 5:14: “The whole law can be summed up in this one command: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’” When Jesus refused to condemn the woman, He was not minimizing the importance of holiness. He was offering her the same kind of forgiveness He offers every one of us (Acts 3:19).

In saying, “Go and sin no more,” Jesus was not speaking of sinless perfection. He was warning against a return to sinful lifestyle choices. His words both extended mercy and demanded holiness. Jesus was always the perfect balance of “grace and truth” (John 1:14). With forgiveness comes the expectation that we will not continue in the same path of rebelliousness. Those who know God’s love will naturally want to obey Him (John 14:15).

When we turn to Christ and receive His forgiveness, we experience a heart change (Luke 9:23; Acts 1:8). Forgiveness is not cheap, and it does not excuse the sin that separated us from God. It cost God everything to offer us the cleansing that pronounces us righteous before Him (John 3:16; 15:13). Rather than continue in the self-centered path that led us astray from Him to begin with, the forgiven can walk in God’s path (Luke 14:27). A move toward God is a move toward righteousness, purity, and holy living (1 Peter 1:16; Romans 8:29). We cannot experience the transforming power of forgiveness without being forever changed.

It goes without saying that the woman caught in adultery did not return to her infidelity. She had met Jesus. She would not be perfect. No one is. But she was forever changed. Her eyes had been opened to the depravity of what she was doing. Sin no longer held the appeal it once did. When we meet Jesus, sin no longer holds its fatal attraction. Grace changes things. “Shall we go on sinning so that grace may increase? By no means! We are those who have died to sin; how can we live in it any longer?” (Romans 6:1–2).When we are born again (John 3:3), the power of the Holy Spirit breaks the power that sin once had over us (Romans 6:6). Once we lived only to please ourselves, but when we have been forgiven, our motivation changes. We now live to please God (Galatians 2:20).

It should be the goal of every Christian to “sin no more,” although we recognize that, while we are in the flesh, we will still stumble (1 John 1:8). God’s desire for each of us is to be holy as He is holy (1 Peter 1:16). We still sin, but sin is no longer a lifestyle choice (1 John 3:9–10). When we fail, we can come to God and ask forgiveness (1 John 1:9; 1 Peter 4:1–2). And if we are truly God’s children, He will correct us, disciplining us when we need it (Hebrews 12:6–11). His work is to conform us to the image of His Son (Romans 8:29).

Recommended Resources: Balancing the Christian Life by Charles Ryrie and Logos Bible Software.

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Inchristalone11

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Friend, God loves us no matter what our faults, read Romans 8 and 1 John (both pretty short) and I think you will feel more encouraged. :) I'll be praying for you!
 
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Unfortunately, Christian culture has set a precedent of how "wrong" one sin is in comparison to another. For example, homosexuality is far more demonized (culturally) amongst Christians than driving in your car speeding. Both are sins and both have consequences (even if they may or may not be different).

People justify their theory of hierarchical sin because of their literal interpretation of the bible when it says "...hath done the greater sin". We can define sin as "anything contrary to God's word". If we look at the bigger picture, we understand that committing even one sin is enough to keep us out of the Kingdom of Heaven. For this reason, we needed a Savior (Jesus Christ) to atone for the sins of mankind. Be it going 1 mile over the speed limit in your car (breaking the law of the land) or robbing a bank, if you do either, you are unworthy to enter God's Kingdom without the blood of Jesus Christ. In this sense, all sin truly is equal. (This does not include the only unforgivable sin, blasphemy against the Holy Spirit. We are speaking strictly of FORGIVABLE sin.)

I would advise that you do a few things.

1.) Understand why you did what you did was wrong (sinful). Seems you already have this down. Be careful not to tear yourself down as we are more susceptible to error/sin by the Father of Lies (Satan) when we are at our lowest lows. Not just the susceptibility to sin, but we ignore the ultimate sacrifice made by Jesus Christ... He suffered so that we will not have to!
2.) Pray to our Father in Heaven and ask for forgiveness as you would ANY and ALL other sin. Don't treat this sin any differently than you would any other sin. Remember, even one sin is enough to keep us out of our Father's Kingdom if it wasn't for the atonement.
3.) Strive to no longer do it. It is difficult. You are definitely not unique when it comes to sexual sin/temptations. The hypocritical part is that while I truly believe these 3 steps must be taken for forgiveness, I know we all will unfortunately repeat some of the same sins. Christ told us to "go and sin no more"... we just have to do our best.
 
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I was reading through the other threads and I wanted to post one that Didymos posted that is relevant here as well. :)

Matthew 26:41 “Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak.”
 
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Quake10

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Yes God forgives. If you are sincerely sorry for your sin, God will forgive you
 

G4JC

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If you really love her you should get married, if you are too young to marry - separate for awhile until you are. God can forgive you, but it doesn't mean you can continue live in sin and go to heaven. Repent (turn from the sin), ask for forgiveness, and sin no more.

Noah Webster's 1828 definition:
REPENT'ANCE, n.
1. Sorrow for any thing done or said; the pain or grief which a person experiences in consequence of the injury or inconvenience produced by his own conduct.
2. In theology, the pain, regret or affliction which a person feels on account of his past conduct, because it exposes him to punishment. This sorrow proceeding merely from the fear of punishment, is called legal repentance, as being excited by the terrors of legal penalties, and it may exist without an amendment of life.
3. Real penitence; sorrow or deep contrition for sin, as an offense and dishonor to God, a violation of his holy law, and the basest ingratitude towards a Being of infinite benevolence. This is called evangelical repentance, and is accompanied and followed by amendment of life.
Repentance is a change of mind, or a conversion from sin to God.
Godly sorrow worketh repentance to salvation. 2 Cor 7. Mat 3.
Repentance is the relinquishment of any practice, from conviction that it has offended God.
 
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He most definitely forgives friend. I did the same thing you did, but for a different reason. I ended up breaking up with that person because I realized-- If they had truly loved me, but loved God even more, then they wouldn't have even let me go that far! It is such a heartbreaking thing to do, but over 6 months later, I'm still single and doing so much better then I was. I miss that person, sure, but I know now, that God said it wasn't meant to be and that I fell into sin. I was a mess because I didn't tell anyone what I had done and I dealt with it on my own, but I eventually found God as my go to person for the time being. I don't have anyone close like I once did to talk to about these things, so if you need a shoulder to lean on. I'm here for you.