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My "boyfriend" and I have been together for 3 years. He treats me right. We don't call each other names and he is very honest with me even when he has made mistakes in our relationship. He is 28 years old with no children and I have 3. He takes responsibility for my children, our 3 dogs, and myself. He provides. He pays a portion of the rent, electric, internet, dish, home phone, cell phone, and health insurance. Plus he gives me extra spending money. I am very dependent on him and do not know how I could support myself, children, and dogs with out him. He has all these qualities, plus even with his very busy schedule he always finds time for me.
Here's the thing. He doesn't want to get married anytime soon. He doesn't want to talk about the subject. Problem with that is that we live together and do things that are only appropriate in a married relationship according to the Bible I read.
There is no commitment. I ask him is he going to stay with me and he says, "Are you going to exceed 200lbs?" He says that if I get fat I better be working on it or our relationship with end. This is very honest. However, it is wrong in my book.
We had a break up. We continued to talk, went to the movies, he took me to one of my son's track meets, and he continued to pay my phone bill. Then I found out he was talking to another girl. When I made the move to get him back he choose her. When we got back together I asked him why he did that and he said, "I saw someone better and I went for it." Honest, but also wrong in my book.
We find out that a man married 43 years has started having an inappropriate relationship with a young women. The married couple will most likely not divorce but the man will continue with his affair. My boyfriend does not see anything wrong with it because the man provides for his wife. He is honest about his belief here, but in my book it is wrong.
There was a time that my boyfriend resented me because he worked so hard and I was staying home all day, sleeping in until 1pm. Still bringing in my own income same as now. My boyfriend started talking to females online about leaving me. Sending pictures of himself with out his shirt on. Asking for the same pics in return. Talking about meeting. At one point the one girls says, "It sound like you want to get caught." My solution for this behavior was to confront him and to get a job to pacify him.
I feel like I am living in sin and there is no way out. I feel like his beliefs are beliefs I cannot live by if in the event any of these situations happen. Like me getting fat. Or another beautiful girl show him some attention. On the other hand he is the best man I have been with by far. What do I do?
Here's the thing. He doesn't want to get married anytime soon. He doesn't want to talk about the subject. Problem with that is that we live together and do things that are only appropriate in a married relationship according to the Bible I read.
There is no commitment. I ask him is he going to stay with me and he says, "Are you going to exceed 200lbs?" He says that if I get fat I better be working on it or our relationship with end. This is very honest. However, it is wrong in my book.
We had a break up. We continued to talk, went to the movies, he took me to one of my son's track meets, and he continued to pay my phone bill. Then I found out he was talking to another girl. When I made the move to get him back he choose her. When we got back together I asked him why he did that and he said, "I saw someone better and I went for it." Honest, but also wrong in my book.
We find out that a man married 43 years has started having an inappropriate relationship with a young women. The married couple will most likely not divorce but the man will continue with his affair. My boyfriend does not see anything wrong with it because the man provides for his wife. He is honest about his belief here, but in my book it is wrong.
There was a time that my boyfriend resented me because he worked so hard and I was staying home all day, sleeping in until 1pm. Still bringing in my own income same as now. My boyfriend started talking to females online about leaving me. Sending pictures of himself with out his shirt on. Asking for the same pics in return. Talking about meeting. At one point the one girls says, "It sound like you want to get caught." My solution for this behavior was to confront him and to get a job to pacify him.
I feel like I am living in sin and there is no way out. I feel like his beliefs are beliefs I cannot live by if in the event any of these situations happen. Like me getting fat. Or another beautiful girl show him some attention. On the other hand he is the best man I have been with by far. What do I do?
