I FEEL LIKE GIVING UP AND GO BACK HOME

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Blackson

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Brothers and sisters,

As you can see from my profile, I am a Malawian and I came to South Africa so that I can further my theological studies. I am doing Masters in Biblical studies. In my country, I was unable to finish this course due to financial difficulties since our denomination does not support any pastor's further studies.

I came to South Africa with hope that I can find some piece work while studying so that I can pay for my studies. Then I met this 60 years woman who masqueraded herself as a prophetess. She told me that i should join a newly established church whose pastor she is a partner with in the ministry. Out of desperation, without asking on the Lord, I just agreed. She promised she will help me with finding job, while I serve at this church.

Little did I know that she wanted to take advantage of my situation and she has been pestering me to be sleeping with her because even God knows that we have feelings to satisfy. I have been ignoring her and she keeps on threatening and harassing me.
I feel like giving up all together and go back to my country and stay with my lovely wife and children. I need your wise advice brethren. What can I do to over come this?
 
TheAristocat

TheAristocat

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Genesis 39:11-21

My advice would be to get out of there. How could God preserve his honor if he did not take care of you when you are trying to obey his will? Live for him. Do what is right. If there is a God, which we believe there is, he will be your help.
 
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chatter23

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Blackson said:
Brothers and sisters,

As you can see from my profile, I am a Malawian and I came to South Africa so that I can further my theological studies. I am doing Masters in Biblical studies. In my country, I was unable to finish this course due to financial difficulties since our denomination does not support any pastor's further studies.

I came to South Africa with hope that I can find some piece work while studying so that I can pay for my studies. Then I met this 60 years woman who masqueraded herself as a prophetess. She told me that i should join a newly established church whose pastor she is a partner with in the ministry. Out of desperation, without asking on the Lord, I just agreed. She promised she will help me with finding job, while I serve at this church.

Little did I know that she wanted to take advantage of my situation and she has been pestering me to be sleeping with her because even God knows that we have feelings to satisfy. I have been ignoring her and she keeps on threatening and harassing me.
I feel like giving up all together and go back to my country and stay with my lovely wife and children. I need your wise advice brethren. What can I do to over come this?
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Go back home to your wife that you shouldn't have left in the first place for any reason.
 
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eddie1801

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The bible says flee from temptation.. Anyone who pressures you to commit adultery and claim to be a prophet is a false prophet. There are many deceiving spirits out there in the world. God looks at the heart, many people have many different titles, but how does God see them. Again flee from this situation
 
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savedandIknowit

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is there a way you could cut contact out of your life and go back to normal? ask God to forgive you for not praying first and ask him to show you the way, be patient,be still and know, If God sent you to South Africa to do your studies, wouldnt you believe He would have you finish them, He will find a way, learn and move on, God will also bless you for enduring a tempation, its just Satan trying to get you out off Gods tracks and make your life miserable with regrets, dont give up brother
 
breno785au

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Mate, go back to your wife and children, God knows they need you!
Holy Spirit will teach you
 
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chatter23

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eddie1801 said:
The bible says flee from temptation.. Anyone who pressures you to commit adultery and claim to be a prophet is a false prophet. There are many deceiving spirits out there in the world. God looks at the heart, many people have many different titles, but how does God see them. Again flee from this situation
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Only cowards run.
 
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Blackson

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chatter23 said:
Go back home to your wife that you shouldn't have left in the first place for any reason.
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Thank you for your advice. However, I wonder if leaving your wife and go studying somewhere is a crime. Many people go for further studies outside their countries and they do not go with their spouses all the time. The problem is not me looking for a woman to sleep with, rather a woman is pestering me.
 
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overcomer2

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This woman reminds me of the woman in Proverbs.
Proverbs2:16To deliver thee from the strange woman, even from the stranger which flattereth with her words; Go Back!
 
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