I need some advice!!!

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Musilany

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I have a friend that is not a christian, he is very depressed, he doesnt have many friends and I have tried everything I could to help him. I have talked to him unumerous times about God, about my testemony about all the proofs of the bible, any question he had i have done my best to explain to him.

The good thing is that he always listens to me, but its because he likes me and everytime we talk he keeps trying asking me out and sayind that i am beautiful and all that stuff.

I need some advice. I know that we cant't save anybody, but the bible tell us to witness and help our brothers so that is what o am trying to do. Sometimes I just fell like its just so pointless to talk to him anymore...And everytime i talk to him i feel like i am giving him some kind of hope and i dont want to hurt his feelings...
So should i keep being like a close friend and always talking and helping him even though its kinda anoying sometimes and i dont see any change or i should just stop all this give up...
 
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radical_christian

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No, don't give up. I think that now more than ever you need to show him how Jesus is loving and accepting. I honestly don't know how you would come about making it clear that you don't want to have a relationship with him but I think that issue really needs to be settled. Don't lose hope and remember how you once were as well. Jesus did not give up on you so don't give up on him. I realize that this is easier said than done but I will keep you in my prayers. May God richly bless you!
 
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NewFaithGuy

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Don't give up on your friend. He really needs you. It will take time, it will take a while, and change will come across him.. But you need to be there with him throughout and help him out. Don't abandon him..
And what radical_christian says is really true.. the issue needs to me settled! Stay with him and help him out, he needs a good friend like you.
 
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