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Not that I'm actively searching, but I'm not blind or dead either. I do not see myself dating for at least a year.
Am I the only one? I feel like my church has a shortage of really good men in my age group. I have lots of guy friends but they are all college students in their early 20's. Then there are a few divorcees with grown kids in the 40-50 range. What happened to all the 30-something's? Come on Prince Charming! I don't ask for much. You just have to go through a few rigorous tests by my very protective pastors, pass the best friend test, love Jesus and worshipping Him with all your heart, be passionate about something, be creative, be muscal, having a living and growIng relationship with The Lord, treat your women right, protect the weaker ones, generally just be a man, be humble, affectionate, compassionate, intelligent, honest yet loving, and patient; have a good job, pursue goals, be financially responsible, love children, desire to be a father, be willing to initiate, lead, pray, study, and learn in all contexts, strong enough to forsake the good thing for the God thing, pursue righteousness, and live an honorable life.
Is that too much to ask?
To be honest, I'm just waiting for any 30-35 yr old to walk through the doors of my church. We don't even have any to evaluate. And I'm a little tired of getting pursued by middle aged men with children my age who are all too frequently still married.
Am I the only one? I feel like my church has a shortage of really good men in my age group. I have lots of guy friends but they are all college students in their early 20's. Then there are a few divorcees with grown kids in the 40-50 range. What happened to all the 30-something's? Come on Prince Charming! I don't ask for much. You just have to go through a few rigorous tests by my very protective pastors, pass the best friend test, love Jesus and worshipping Him with all your heart, be passionate about something, be creative, be muscal, having a living and growIng relationship with The Lord, treat your women right, protect the weaker ones, generally just be a man, be humble, affectionate, compassionate, intelligent, honest yet loving, and patient; have a good job, pursue goals, be financially responsible, love children, desire to be a father, be willing to initiate, lead, pray, study, and learn in all contexts, strong enough to forsake the good thing for the God thing, pursue righteousness, and live an honorable life.
Is that too much to ask?
To be honest, I'm just waiting for any 30-35 yr old to walk through the doors of my church. We don't even have any to evaluate. And I'm a little tired of getting pursued by middle aged men with children my age who are all too frequently still married.