If you call yourself separated, you could be sinning...
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I disagree not everyone that is separated is seeking a new partner or interested in adultery. Some use the separation time to sort out their personal issues and seek God's wisdom in their situation.
So that when they come back together their heart & mind is in a better place to love & invest in their marriage.
So that when they come back together their heart & mind is in a better place to love & invest in their marriage.
By this definition I must consider myself unmarried. There are numerous reasons for causes of separation in a relationship, most of which do not lend for contemplation of ending the marriage of adultery. This is especially true for the injured spouse. Your formulated view is naïve and myopic regarding this equation.
If he separated from you (and he gave you "divorce letter") or he comitted adultery you are free for a new romantic movie 
without any guilt, right?
without any guilt, right?
Ok my case is very complicated because usually i dont know what to do and just swim into the draft or in other words just enjoy what God is giving me. Well yes i had a man and we have child. No document because really i dont believe a sign can change something. No wedding as well. But although i lived around many boys even i was in school for construction/ building, i never like a person because i notice bad things in every person - inside and outside. So only a lie about person could make me see the perfect man. Ok he is a liar but still i like many things about how he thinks. First i like that he can leave any person. Second he can broke a laptop and never regret. And so on. Ok i know that s not normal but Jesus teach us to sepatare from evil so that man teached me a stuff or two. So i loved him (dont ask me what is love)- i believe i did love him. Then God opened my eyes and i saw he is bad person and we sepatare. I dont bother if my "husband" have 10 wifes. Adultery is not a problem but it WaS the reason in front of God for separation. So i feel free to write down "looking for a mate". But i m not sure what God want from me. I believe He will give me what He want me to have- in other words- if God make him "alive" (he is dead in my eyes) i will accept him. If God send me another christian- i m willing to accept although i dont want another man- first because i dont want my son to think i cannot hold my legs closed, and second because i feel like adultery when i think to touch another man (because i really believe God created for every man one woman and viceversa - so i gave myself for that man already). Yes i had boyfriends in past but it was before that man. Some advices?
Does New Zealand have laws vs fornication and adultery? Does the government care at all if the separated fornicate/adulterize?
Does the NZ govt care at all if the rules are followed:
1) Let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband (1 Cor 7),
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2) Come together often lest satan tempt you because of your incontinence?
Does the NZ govt care at all if the rules are followed:
1) Let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband (1 Cor 7),
and
2) Come together often lest satan tempt you because of your incontinence?
I am recently widowed and that was not by choice either. I am not at all sure whether I want to enter into a new relationship as that may tarnish the image that I have of my wife who now resides with Jesus. I guess that we are just two lonely guys who are trying to endure a lot of pain. I don't know how this story will end but I have a feeling that it will be quite an adventure. There are days that I want to be with Jesus too.
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