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So, I am really stuck in a rut here. I need some good advice. Let's start the story.
So, there's this guy. (Typical huh?) But, I really really really like him. We've been great friends for about a year and a half. I am head over heels in love with him. I keep him completely clueless of my feelings for fear that it would ruin our friendship. He is huge in his church, plays in a band, his dad's a preacher. I mean he's pretty much the best thing that's ever happened to me. I've prayed about it a lot and I half-heartedly feel like he's "the one". Ya know? I just--He's the type of person that any girl would fall in love with. But here's a twist. I'm best friends with his sister. and while he was dating the last girl for about a year, I became really close to her. Do I hurt her to pursue the man of my dreams? Do I even let him know how I feel? Should I risk my friendship for a relationship? I have no idea what to do. I've prayed about the situation a lot. I come up completely conflicted between my head and my heart. I love him, and he knows that I do. But he believes it to be the same type of love that he has for me--the love of a family. But I care for him much more than that. What do I do? Someone. Please, I beg of you to lend your wisdom. And BTW this guy--Well, he'll be 21 on the 21st of this month and I'll be 16 in August.
So, there's this guy. (Typical huh?) But, I really really really like him. We've been great friends for about a year and a half. I am head over heels in love with him. I keep him completely clueless of my feelings for fear that it would ruin our friendship. He is huge in his church, plays in a band, his dad's a preacher. I mean he's pretty much the best thing that's ever happened to me. I've prayed about it a lot and I half-heartedly feel like he's "the one". Ya know? I just--He's the type of person that any girl would fall in love with. But here's a twist. I'm best friends with his sister. and while he was dating the last girl for about a year, I became really close to her. Do I hurt her to pursue the man of my dreams? Do I even let him know how I feel? Should I risk my friendship for a relationship? I have no idea what to do. I've prayed about the situation a lot. I come up completely conflicted between my head and my heart. I love him, and he knows that I do. But he believes it to be the same type of love that he has for me--the love of a family. But I care for him much more than that. What do I do? Someone. Please, I beg of you to lend your wisdom. And BTW this guy--Well, he'll be 21 on the 21st of this month and I'll be 16 in August.