you people(plural,many; maybe not all) missing the boat. read about corrie ten boom, and the believers in nazi prison camps, the ones of faith who had JOY in prison
JUST LIKE THE APOSTLES SINGING PRAISE OUT LOUD IN CHAINS AT MIDNIGHT , chained to rock/stone walls cold and damp and with no human means of getting help.
yes, all the ekklesia, every believer following JESUS, must give up his life, be a living martyr and often also a dying martyr.
whoever seeks to save his own life will lose it (not in JESUS, but apart from HIM).
the ones who try to save their own life, who think it is valuable enough to save, are lost.