Hi Hal, This is a interesting post to me. I myself, never saw a big difference in which one I wore. I know there is different faiths represented by them. When I see a cross or a crucifix, I see one thing Jesus, who is the beating heart of my faith. I wonder if the crucifix represents the faith you were raised in? It may be the crucifix is a more painful sight of what Jesus suffered for us. You may not be able to figure out why you are bothered by it, but what matters is that you believe in God, and have a relationship with Him. When I first started at my church, which is very large, 4000.+ members, I was not comfortable with the fact that there is no large cross at the front where we worship. Then I saw why I love the church, God is there, in the praying, singing, praising people. I was raised in a Lutheran church, with the large cross. That's all I knew. I know many faithful believers that don't wear a cross, and then there is some that wear many, and will tell you they don't believe. Jesus knows where your heart is. God's blessings on you my friend.