Find a smaller church. haha, I'm somewhat kidding. I am not a big fan of large churches & this is one of the primary reasons. It was way to easy to get lost in the crowd & never be noticed. You have to be somewhat aggressive in making friends or being noticed. Maybe if they have small groups during the week, such as bible studies, or womens night, etc, try those where the crowd may be much smaller & the type of people might be more tailored to you. HOpe that helps some.