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I have been married to my husband for 8 1/2 years. A few years ago I had an affair. I never told him because I didn't want to hurt him or lose him. I've always felt guilty. Earlier this year the guilt got so bad. I couldn't even look at him. I wasn't a christian so I was easily tempted by satan and was confused. I started talking to the guy it happened with again and thought God was telling me to leave my husband for him. I didn't think I loved my husband. I now know God wasn't telling me that. I became afraid my husband would find out so I left and filed for divorce. It's been 3 1/2 months since I filed. 2 weeks after I filed someone told my husband about the affair. He was devastated.
I started praying and I could feel my heart changing. I started not wanting to be with the guy I had the affair with, my feelings for my husband changed. I was living 3 1/2 hrs from my husband and I felt like God was telling me to move back to the town my husband was living so I packed up and moved back there. I ended things with the guy I had the affair with. I prayed and asked God to forgive me and to save me. I started feeling like God wanted me to fight for my marriage. I pray daily, all day for God to convict my husbands heart, and to heal our marriage. My husband says he no longer lives me and he wants the divorce. I still pray.
At first he was cold towards me and said hurtful things to me. Since then he has asked me to do some things, like write him a list of things I would do differently and why I would, and to leave the affair out. I did this for him. I wrote him a note telling him God hates divorce, this divorce is not his will.
I can see God working. He is no longer cold towards me. We have 2 small children together and he had been coming to things with us when I invite him now. He asked to come over to my place today to watch our kids open Christmas presents. I was in a car accident a few days ago and he has helped me a lot. He has taken me places, given me one of his cars to drive while mine is not drivable.
I know this is God working and changing his heart. But he still says he wants the divorce.
I live in an empty apartment with only my kids toddler beds and me an air mattress. I get half of our furniture after I sign the property agreement. Something won't let me sign it, I know it's God telling me not to. I have lived this way for 2 months and I will continue to.
I pray hard at times and cry hard for God to change his heart, let him forgive me, and to heal our marriage. I pray asking God to reconcile us and not let satan win this one.
I have noticed my love for my husband is stronger then ever before and I am missing him and yearning for him. I know this is Gods work. And I don't think God would be letting me feel this way if he wasn't going to reconcile our marriage.
It's hard waiting and I'm scared because we are 3 1/2 months into a divorce. I could use prayers and advice. Thanks!
I started praying and I could feel my heart changing. I started not wanting to be with the guy I had the affair with, my feelings for my husband changed. I was living 3 1/2 hrs from my husband and I felt like God was telling me to move back to the town my husband was living so I packed up and moved back there. I ended things with the guy I had the affair with. I prayed and asked God to forgive me and to save me. I started feeling like God wanted me to fight for my marriage. I pray daily, all day for God to convict my husbands heart, and to heal our marriage. My husband says he no longer lives me and he wants the divorce. I still pray.
At first he was cold towards me and said hurtful things to me. Since then he has asked me to do some things, like write him a list of things I would do differently and why I would, and to leave the affair out. I did this for him. I wrote him a note telling him God hates divorce, this divorce is not his will.
I can see God working. He is no longer cold towards me. We have 2 small children together and he had been coming to things with us when I invite him now. He asked to come over to my place today to watch our kids open Christmas presents. I was in a car accident a few days ago and he has helped me a lot. He has taken me places, given me one of his cars to drive while mine is not drivable.
I know this is God working and changing his heart. But he still says he wants the divorce.
I live in an empty apartment with only my kids toddler beds and me an air mattress. I get half of our furniture after I sign the property agreement. Something won't let me sign it, I know it's God telling me not to. I have lived this way for 2 months and I will continue to.
I pray hard at times and cry hard for God to change his heart, let him forgive me, and to heal our marriage. I pray asking God to reconcile us and not let satan win this one.
I have noticed my love for my husband is stronger then ever before and I am missing him and yearning for him. I know this is Gods work. And I don't think God would be letting me feel this way if he wasn't going to reconcile our marriage.
It's hard waiting and I'm scared because we are 3 1/2 months into a divorce. I could use prayers and advice. Thanks!