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Let me say first off, that I am NOT attracted to this man in any way, shape or form. The two of us ARE NOT in a relationship (I forbid it). And I DO NOT have ANY intentions of being in a relationship with this man, period! But he sees something else.
The two of us are friends. I know his wife. We do not go to the same church, but he is a child of Chist. A fellow believer, and I have known him for some time now. Good guy.
What started off as just a friendship, in his eyes, he is wanting more than that. I did not pick up on these clues at first, and a long while back I had given him my number (something, I had forgotten about).
It's sort of complicated. But when we meet up at work, he showers me with compliments. Talks about calling me and coming over (he doesn't know where I live and I'm keeping it that way). Wants a message and doesn't want me to tell his wife. He is sooooo attracted to me and goes on and on about how beautiful I am and calls me 'Gorgeous' often.
I am repulsed by him. There is no way that I would EVER consider touching him or anything else concerning him. I am repulsed because he is a married man and my brother in Christ and it just sickens me that he would pursue another woman. I am sorry if his wife isn't "what he bargained for", but I WILL NOT be taking her place!
I want him gone out of my life!
Please pray for me that God will give me the wisdom in how to handle this situation. What to say and how to say it. I don't want to hurt the man and I don't want this to end badly in some way, like a retaliation because he does have my number. But I can no longer stand it!
I am changing my number and I could really use some advice. Please.
Thank you.
The two of us are friends. I know his wife. We do not go to the same church, but he is a child of Chist. A fellow believer, and I have known him for some time now. Good guy.
What started off as just a friendship, in his eyes, he is wanting more than that. I did not pick up on these clues at first, and a long while back I had given him my number (something, I had forgotten about).
It's sort of complicated. But when we meet up at work, he showers me with compliments. Talks about calling me and coming over (he doesn't know where I live and I'm keeping it that way). Wants a message and doesn't want me to tell his wife. He is sooooo attracted to me and goes on and on about how beautiful I am and calls me 'Gorgeous' often.
I am repulsed by him. There is no way that I would EVER consider touching him or anything else concerning him. I am repulsed because he is a married man and my brother in Christ and it just sickens me that he would pursue another woman. I am sorry if his wife isn't "what he bargained for", but I WILL NOT be taking her place!
I want him gone out of my life!
Please pray for me that God will give me the wisdom in how to handle this situation. What to say and how to say it. I don't want to hurt the man and I don't want this to end badly in some way, like a retaliation because he does have my number. But I can no longer stand it!
I am changing my number and I could really use some advice. Please.
Thank you.