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Heavenlymarriage

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I want to keep this straight to the point without my interjections. I want a non biased opinion and wisdom about this situation.

On Monday, Father-in-law text my husband: I want to take you and your two sisters out for your birthday.
My husband never mentions the text to me. He said that he forgot.

On Friday, husband states his sisters sent him a text about having the dinner tonight.
Husband then sends me text stating these exact words:

"Hey baby, my dad wants to take my sisters and i out for dinner tonight, however, i told him that i wasn't available tonight. Do u think that 2morrow around noon is better?"

My confusion and question is, am I invited? (doesn't sound like it)
 
Nautilus

Nautilus

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Jun 29, 2012
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uh just be an adult and wait for an invite.
 
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wwjd_kilden

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Ask him?....

PS If you are not invited, do not get any ideas about it being about them in general not wanting you there, sometimes families like to do stuff only with their closest family members. I think it is important for families to have time of their own on occasions :)
 
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Ugly

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Yeah, just ask your husband.
 
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Lucy68

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Jan 21, 2011
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To me it sounds like he assumes you know you're invited since he asked you about the time.

Just ask him :) .
 
brokenheart69

brokenheart69

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Mar 17, 2012
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don't assume! make sure u know if ur invited or not. sure didnt sound like u was, sounded like he was making sure you know not to exppect being around. but just ask, and make sure, hate 2 have ya all dolleds up and no where 2 go.
 
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strawberryfizz

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Totally agree - just ask :)
 
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