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Hello everyone,
I have recently had a conversation with my ten year old daughter that has stirred up some emotions. My daughter goes to a real small school, one class per grade, Pre-school through eighth grade and 200 kids. So, she has been with for the most part the same kids every year. All the girls have seemed friendly, kind, religious, and so on.
Last night before bed I climbed into bed to chat with my baby and she starts telling me how kids are not being very nice. Long story short the girls are becoming clicky and the boys are picking on her (flirting). She is really hurt, mainly because her best friends are being rude, giving her dirty looks, and even have done some physical things out of anger. She has not told anyone but me. She walks away from the conflict, but has said to some that she didn't like that, or something was mean.
Okay, so I explained typical society bull, and then reminded her about the amount and duration Jesus suffered. She went to school and today one of the girls punched her in the stomache (not sure if she was being mean) my daughter said she just turned around without saying anything.
Sorry it is taking so long to get to the point, but my question is how would you explain 1) how to deal with this? 2) what bible verses would be helpful? 3) how to get a ten year old to understand that friends aren't that important? (she thinks she isn't going to have friends if she doesn't remain friends with them)
Help........ My heart is breaking. She is the most fair, kind, honest, mindful child.
I have recently had a conversation with my ten year old daughter that has stirred up some emotions. My daughter goes to a real small school, one class per grade, Pre-school through eighth grade and 200 kids. So, she has been with for the most part the same kids every year. All the girls have seemed friendly, kind, religious, and so on.
Last night before bed I climbed into bed to chat with my baby and she starts telling me how kids are not being very nice. Long story short the girls are becoming clicky and the boys are picking on her (flirting). She is really hurt, mainly because her best friends are being rude, giving her dirty looks, and even have done some physical things out of anger. She has not told anyone but me. She walks away from the conflict, but has said to some that she didn't like that, or something was mean.
Okay, so I explained typical society bull, and then reminded her about the amount and duration Jesus suffered. She went to school and today one of the girls punched her in the stomache (not sure if she was being mean) my daughter said she just turned around without saying anything.
Sorry it is taking so long to get to the point, but my question is how would you explain 1) how to deal with this? 2) what bible verses would be helpful? 3) how to get a ten year old to understand that friends aren't that important? (she thinks she isn't going to have friends if she doesn't remain friends with them)
Help........ My heart is breaking. She is the most fair, kind, honest, mindful child.