Hi Dude, First of all, welcome to ChristianChat.com
You mentioned that the people on the chat room seem cliquish...you would be right. They can be. Most of the time if you do not communicate on mic you are ignored. It can be hard to jump in at first. Give us a chance though. Most of us are VERY friendly and love meeting new people. I hope you decide to come back and you enjoy your stay.
God Bless!
Chicky