Outcasting

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yoej_ogart

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What I really reeeally can't stand is when the Christians I have met, say "Oh hey!" or talk to you and act all nice.. but then out of no where, they start to pick on you! annd stop talking to you.. it hurts me when they do that. Because many of them think they know me, but they haven't seen who I am all the way through.. PLus they always out cast me like I'm not here.. Anybody else get out casted by someone?
 
SoLoved

SoLoved

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I get outcasted a lot...and yeah... it does hurt
 
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socperkins

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People in my church do this, but I think it's because they're old (maybe they forget my name). It does hurt, but I just keep grinning and being polite to them.
 
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yoej_ogart

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SoLoved said:
I get outcasted a lot...and yeah... it does hurt
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yeah.. :/ I hope that the outcasting towards you ends, or at least lowers lol God bless!
 
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yoej_ogart

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socperkins said:
People in my church do this, but I think it's because they're old (maybe they forget my name). It does hurt, but I just keep grinning and being polite to them.
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Awesome! That's what I do, it may hurt but yeah.. it's the right thing lol God bless!
 
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Vidy

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Uhhhhm... I think I'm weird, I'm the only person who's never experienced this -.-

I've never been betrayed or anything... But then again, I've never lived anywhere more than ~2 years in a row, so haven't really had time to develop relationships trusting enough to BE betrayed lol. Anyway, I normally don't hang out with "church kids" anyway, since most of the time they talk about... drugs, sex, and sports. I tend to hang more around the "outcast" kids anyway, since they talk about drugs, sex, and video games XD I'm a nerd lulz.

Of course, once they get to know me, they will be more cautious around me and try to keep things more appropriate, because they KNOW I don't like most of that stuff. A lot of the times the topics don't really change, but they keep it less vulgar and use less bad language. Still not great, but hey, it's improvement =D lol
 
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relient_k23

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i try not to let it bug me.....the way i see it, if they're not really interested in being my friend, then they're not worth being friends WITH. lol. that may sound harsh but....
 
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yoej_ogart

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Vidy said:
Uhhhhm... I think I'm weird, I'm the only person who's never experienced this -.-

I've never been betrayed or anything... But then again, I've never lived anywhere more than ~2 years in a row, so haven't really had time to develop relationships trusting enough to BE betrayed lol. Anyway, I normally don't hang out with "church kids" anyway, since most of the time they talk about... drugs, sex, and sports. I tend to hang more around the "outcast" kids anyway, since they talk about drugs, sex, and video games XD I'm a nerd lulz.

Of course, once they get to know me, they will be more cautious around me and try to keep things more appropriate, because they KNOW I don't like most of that stuff. A lot of the times the topics don't really change, but they keep it less vulgar and use less bad language. Still not great, but hey, it's improvement =D lol
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lol that's lucky though, for you! I was like a bully magnet D: ...Yeah I like hanging out with the outcast kids too, nerd? ha! Nerds ruuule! (sometimes.. lol)

Yeah! They watch out huh! x) Yeah! haha.. God bless!!
 
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yoej_ogart

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relient_k23 said:
i try not to let it bug me.....the way i see it, if they're not really interested in being my friend, then they're not worth being friends WITH. lol. that may sound harsh but....
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No! I agree!:D The true friends are the ones that stick with you no matter what.. God bless!
 
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HumbleSaint

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yoej_ogart said:
No! I agree!:D The true friends are the ones that stick with you no matter what.. God bless!
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Could you tell me yogart how to start a new thread. I'm a little dumb when it comes to that.
 
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yoej_ogart

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HumbleSaint said:
Could you tell me yogart how to start a new thread. I'm a little dumb when it comes to that.
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lol um pick a subject first! Then when you click to enter that subject place haha, above all the forums you'll see a button saying, "NEW THREAD" you click that, and boom! x)
 
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HumbleSaint

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yoej_ogart said:
lol um pick a subject first! Then when you click to enter that subject place haha, above all the forums you'll see a button saying, "NEW THREAD" you click that, and boom! x)
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Gracious(thank you)
 
Red_Tory

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If I have experienced that, I haven't noticed.
 
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ilovehillsong

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yeah i know what you mean. its like they want to be seen to be friendly but when you reply in a friendly way, they just ignore you, and then you feel really let down. Luckily, i now have friends i have had for about 5 years, so it doesnt bother me so much anymore cos i have other friends to fall back on.
 
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Zeebra

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Yes I know exactly what you mean, Yogi. I have been out-casted. From my friends back in BC, For about tow months they wouldn't talk to me...For like no reason.. Thats when I was under depression, and well no worries haha I didn't get too depressed, but it wasn't the best time of my life. I hated it... And of course that summer I was moving, so I didn't see my bestfriend untill the last day I moved, because she wouldn't talk to me. I honestly don't understand why it happened, it just did. But were okay now..... And I think I know exactly why you posted this.. We can chat about it if you like ? .... Anyways God Bless hun, Have a wonderful Christ filled day !

P.S They were minimal (or however you spell it!) christians.
 
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yoej_ogart

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ilovehillsong said:
yeah i know what you mean. its like they want to be seen to be friendly but when you reply in a friendly way, they just ignore you, and then you feel really let down. Luckily, i now have friends i have had for about 5 years, so it doesnt bother me so much anymore cos i have other friends to fall back on.
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yeah trueee.. well awesome! x) I'm happy for you!
 
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yoej_ogart

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Zeebra said:
Yes I know exactly what you mean, Yogi. I have been out-casted. From my friends back in BC, For about tow months they wouldn't talk to me...For like no reason.. Thats when I was under depression, and well no worries haha I didn't get too depressed, but it wasn't the best time of my life. I hated it... And of course that summer I was moving, so I didn't see my bestfriend untill the last day I moved, because she wouldn't talk to me. I honestly don't understand why it happened, it just did. But were okay now..... And I think I know exactly why you posted this.. We can chat about it if you like ? .... Anyways God Bless hun, Have a wonderful Christ filled day !

P.S They were minimal (or however you spell it!) christians.
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yeah! Sounds gooood.. lol thank you!! You too! Ha.. God bless! Have a greeeeat time shopping!
 
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