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As a child I had a playmate who was four years younger than myself and also a family friend. Even as an infant, she was always rude, loud and selfish. I always reported her little pranks to my mom and after a while I refused to play with her. Then my mom told me her mom (who was best friends with mine) felt I hated her daughter so I should try my best to tolerate her. I was only nine but i remember I made the choice never to take anything she did to heart anymore cos her mom was always nice to me. At thirteen, I left Nigeria for Ghana and attended boarding schools away from home with scarce visits from only three members of my family of seven. long story short, I finished school and extended my stay in Ghana to work. I had a baby boy at nineteen and came home to stay till I resume University when my baby turns one as I Am a single mom. I saw my playmate again. Now seventeen and she is MESSED UP. She also attended a boarding school not too far from home for only three years but she's now bisexual (only I know this. both our parents will have heart attacks if I spill), she screams obscenities at her parents at the slightest provocation, she breaks all the rules. in fact, she's out of control. Her parents brought her over to my house once so all the adults could advice her. I could read a lot in the expression of the other adults apart from her parents. there were many emotions as a result of her behaviour but never surprise. After her parents left, the others got talking and just as I thought, they all expected this. maybe not as bad but they knew she was headed toward trouble right from the start with her attitude and her parents indulgence during her younger days. This whole situation just scares me because I can hardly believe the innocent little girl with attitude problems is the same as this person who calls her parents names and beats her orphaned cousins claiming they "irritate" her. What goes wrong along the line?? How do innocent infants morph into this??