Good evening everyone!
I have a question to pose to the group, wondering if its just a me thing, or if its something other people have experienced too.
I am in general a very physically affectionate person. Hugs and kisses and cuddles abound in my family, and when I am around my girl friends we have no problem linking arms, hugging, or snuggling down to watch a movie. I even had a guy friend at one point where hugging and leaning on each other was very regular (i dont know how to word it, it wasn't sexual at all, it was more like brother and sister, we'd watch movies and be side by side). So I would readily say I am a very touchy person.
Problem is, if you want to call it that, is lately when I have physical contact with people of the opposite sex I have a rather visceral reaction. On more then one occasion I have involuntarily jerked away from a touch, whether it was just a tap on the shoulder, or someone grabbing my hand to help me up a steep slope when hiking. I have even found that shaking hands with guys at the church makes me really uncomfortable. I've only just started to notice it and its really been bugging me.
I spoke about it with a friend earlier today, and she was baffled too. It wasn't something she personally experienced as she has never been a particularly touchy person. We posited that maybe it was because I have become hyper aware that touch tends to have meaning and don't want to create meaning where it doesn't belong.
Anyway, I was wondering if anyone else has ever experienced something like this, and what you did you combat it, or if you ever found out why. Its something I have just recently become aware of and plan of praying and seeking God about, hopefully He can fill me in.
I have a question to pose to the group, wondering if its just a me thing, or if its something other people have experienced too.
I am in general a very physically affectionate person. Hugs and kisses and cuddles abound in my family, and when I am around my girl friends we have no problem linking arms, hugging, or snuggling down to watch a movie. I even had a guy friend at one point where hugging and leaning on each other was very regular (i dont know how to word it, it wasn't sexual at all, it was more like brother and sister, we'd watch movies and be side by side). So I would readily say I am a very touchy person.
Problem is, if you want to call it that, is lately when I have physical contact with people of the opposite sex I have a rather visceral reaction. On more then one occasion I have involuntarily jerked away from a touch, whether it was just a tap on the shoulder, or someone grabbing my hand to help me up a steep slope when hiking. I have even found that shaking hands with guys at the church makes me really uncomfortable. I've only just started to notice it and its really been bugging me.
I spoke about it with a friend earlier today, and she was baffled too. It wasn't something she personally experienced as she has never been a particularly touchy person. We posited that maybe it was because I have become hyper aware that touch tends to have meaning and don't want to create meaning where it doesn't belong.
Anyway, I was wondering if anyone else has ever experienced something like this, and what you did you combat it, or if you ever found out why. Its something I have just recently become aware of and plan of praying and seeking God about, hopefully He can fill me in.
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