I've seen the same girl for a long long time. I like a few key things about her. But there's been some challenges too. Both with me and her so we never got married. But we've managed to get threw most issues. But now at the start of the year she stopped wanting to make love, and she broke up with me for about 5 months. We recently got back together so to speak but she still won't make love. And she doesn't want to spend time like for thanksgiving or to be seen by my relatives. It's not a big deal though. I know that should be saved the sex for marriage but that just didn't work out that way for us.
I just don't know what do to do though. I mean my relationship no longer feels the same. It's still got certain things I like and some I don't like. It's challenging at times. I've been debating just giving up and either being single for a bit or else maybe slowly start dating again. Then the other thing I had considered was moving to a different city at some point in the near future if I can get some last key things tied up. So that might be one way to officially give it some space and let things go.
We're just so stuck on each other emotionally. Like it would be really hard to fully let her go. We care about each other deeply because we've been threw so much. But now I'm not sure what she wants. Like at most she wants to get together for say an afternoon about once a week. Thats' all she'll commit to, and it basically seems like two friends hanging out, so it doesn't help the situation much at all. I'm not sure what I'm feeling about the situation anymore either. it's really confusing. I just need some prayer over this challenging situation, to try and figure out what to do. Thank you.
I just don't know what do to do though. I mean my relationship no longer feels the same. It's still got certain things I like and some I don't like. It's challenging at times. I've been debating just giving up and either being single for a bit or else maybe slowly start dating again. Then the other thing I had considered was moving to a different city at some point in the near future if I can get some last key things tied up. So that might be one way to officially give it some space and let things go.
We're just so stuck on each other emotionally. Like it would be really hard to fully let her go. We care about each other deeply because we've been threw so much. But now I'm not sure what she wants. Like at most she wants to get together for say an afternoon about once a week. Thats' all she'll commit to, and it basically seems like two friends hanging out, so it doesn't help the situation much at all. I'm not sure what I'm feeling about the situation anymore either. it's really confusing. I just need some prayer over this challenging situation, to try and figure out what to do. Thank you.
