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loverofjesus27

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For my friend Lin she gets carried away and calls me dork and stupid sometimes and its very annoying when she calls me that. What can i do?? Halp.
 

crmvet

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Philippians 4:6-7
 

Shilo

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You need to call your friend out and tell them to quit being a bully. If the name calling continues if you have a mutual friend you can involve them. Control your anger But remember hearing someone call you nasty names can have a devastating effect even if you don't realize it at the time. Matthew 18 if your brother or sister since go and point out their fault, just between the 2 of you. If they listen to you you have won them over But if they will not listen take 1 or 2 others along so that every matter may be established by the testimony of 2 or 3 witnesses. Do not let the evil one use this person to harm your mind and your self confidence. I will pray for you both
 
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Ugly

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Establish some boundaries for yourself. Read the book Boundaries by Townsend/Cloud.
 
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Sweetmorningdew78

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Just let her know that you are not comfortable with her calling you names...maybe try to talk to her(only you and her) tell her...Lin...I've got something to tell you I hope you won't get mad...because you know Lin...whenever you call me those names...I feel not comfortable.. I know you don't mean it...but I am a uncomfortable hearing those words...thank you Lin and please you are dear to me and I appreciate you as my good friend :)



I'll pray that she will stop using those words ...




God bless you ❤
 

levi85

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Lord let you stop Lin from being rude to loverofjesus27, bless their friendship bloom. Give lin a loving, caring and understanding character. Bless both of them. In Jesus loving name, Amen!
 
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La_Vie_En_Rose

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For my friend Lin she gets carried away and calls me dork and stupid sometimes and its very annoying when she calls me that. What can i do?? Halp.
Maybe stop being a dork? You can start by spelling the word “help” correctly.

I hope this “helps”.
 
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loverofjesus27

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Banned for three weeks you are.
 

Magenta

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Maybe your friend does not know that this offends you. Letting
her know it hurts your feelings would be a good first step.

 
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loverofjesus27

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My “mod” by mark. Perfume says you’re banned temporarily.
 

Magenta

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I thought I was banned forever.
You left of your own free will. Unless you are a Calvinist, of course. If that is the case, then you did not have a choice, and God made you do it.
 
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loverofjesus27

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#13
Thanks magenta.
 
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La_Vie_En_Rose

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You left of your own free will. Unless you are a Calvinist, of course. If that is the case, then you did not have a choice, and God made you do it.
I was not referring to this site.
 
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loverofjesus27

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Friend, they are hard to find.