Give your worries to Jesus - let him carry your burdens for you. This is not an easy situation you find yourself in and I'm sure many of your friends and family probably tells you to move on and leave him behind, and that just aint so easy, is it. All I am going to say is that you must be sure it is not a case of Co-dependency you are experiencing which sort of translates into love and care. But you know that God restores. And lucky in our case God is not a God who sits back and says "I help those who help themselves" God helps those who call on him.
You need to seek God in this, if your husband is not a saved Child of God, it is time that you pray for that to be the case, once he gives his life to Jesus, change will come naturally, until then continue to pray.
I'll pray for you too and for restoration of your soul.
Ive posted here for my relationship numerous times. Some are pure emotion and others more together. I'm married to a man I love dearly but who has emotional issues and tends to be emotionally abusive. He has anger problems. But I love him. I don't want to change him I just want to love him and be loved in return. He says the worst things to me and hurts me mentally. I try to not get angry and say hurtful things back but I do. Now he says hes done with me and doesn't love me...I don't want to lose him. I need wisdom on how to handle my life and strength because ive run out. Please please pray for me
