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Okay, I see these threads pop up frequently, asking what it means for the wives to submit to their husbands. (I almost posted this question in this thread [ http://christianchat.com/bible-discussion-forum/51063-submitting-your-husband.html ] but I didn't want to hijack it).
And the biggest question on my mind is always the same. And I'm hoping a kind, open-minded person who has been exposed to genuine moments of Christian spiritual enlightenment (pure love) can help clear this one up for me....
Yes, the bible says for the wives to be the submissive ones, and that the husband is to be the spiritual leader of the household, and he's to lead the family in holy ways. Yes?
My question is, what if the wife of the family is more spiritually mature than her husband? Say God has shown her some things that He has not shown her man.
Now say they disagree on something, is she to dumb herself down and do the opposite of what she has learned divinely and just do what her husband thinks is right instead? Say hypothetically if she tells him what she has learned, she risks coming off as sounding crazy or even disrespectful (even though she's not) because he has not grown in that same understanding yet.
Or is she supposed to hold out on marrying for a long time and find a man who is yet even more spiritually mature than her?
Or are women like that simply not meant to be married?
I will not look at anyone's responses as THE black-and-white truth but I was just wondering about people's opinions on this particular paradox that repeatedly pops up in my mind.
And the biggest question on my mind is always the same. And I'm hoping a kind, open-minded person who has been exposed to genuine moments of Christian spiritual enlightenment (pure love) can help clear this one up for me....
Yes, the bible says for the wives to be the submissive ones, and that the husband is to be the spiritual leader of the household, and he's to lead the family in holy ways. Yes?
My question is, what if the wife of the family is more spiritually mature than her husband? Say God has shown her some things that He has not shown her man.
Now say they disagree on something, is she to dumb herself down and do the opposite of what she has learned divinely and just do what her husband thinks is right instead? Say hypothetically if she tells him what she has learned, she risks coming off as sounding crazy or even disrespectful (even though she's not) because he has not grown in that same understanding yet.
Or is she supposed to hold out on marrying for a long time and find a man who is yet even more spiritually mature than her?
Or are women like that simply not meant to be married?
I will not look at anyone's responses as THE black-and-white truth but I was just wondering about people's opinions on this particular paradox that repeatedly pops up in my mind.