So this is really a question about me and my girlfriend, but seeing as how many people in the family section might have gone through this, I figured I would ask here.
My girlfriend is in law school (in a different city) and is a few days out from her first exam. One exam in each class determines the class grade. Needless to say, she's stressed. She has been for the past month or so, and it's really starting to affect me. She blows off steam at school by going out or hanging out with friends or whatever, but seems to be way more stressed and frustrated than usual when we talk (which is less now because she's studying too much).
Any advice? I'm trying to be as supportive as possible, but it's difficult when the sweet, kind and caring girl that I started dating a little over a year ago only makes brief appearances in between the constant stress and frustration. I'm hoping after exams are over in two weeks this will abate, but in the meantime I'm freaking out. I can't do anything to help, and I feel like I can't say anything without it being the "wrong thing." I'm just a little concerned because I think this is probably the most stressful thing she's been through, and I'm just hoping it's not an indicator of her ability to handle stress (I haven't ever seen her act like this before though, even when stressed).
Also, sidebar - I really do value the advice of people on this site, but I can't say that I'm extremely religious, so any advice that has less to do with prayer or anything like that would be appreciated. I'm not saying that that isn't the best thing for some people, but it's just not really helpful advice for me right now.
Thanks!
My girlfriend is in law school (in a different city) and is a few days out from her first exam. One exam in each class determines the class grade. Needless to say, she's stressed. She has been for the past month or so, and it's really starting to affect me. She blows off steam at school by going out or hanging out with friends or whatever, but seems to be way more stressed and frustrated than usual when we talk (which is less now because she's studying too much).
Any advice? I'm trying to be as supportive as possible, but it's difficult when the sweet, kind and caring girl that I started dating a little over a year ago only makes brief appearances in between the constant stress and frustration. I'm hoping after exams are over in two weeks this will abate, but in the meantime I'm freaking out. I can't do anything to help, and I feel like I can't say anything without it being the "wrong thing." I'm just a little concerned because I think this is probably the most stressful thing she's been through, and I'm just hoping it's not an indicator of her ability to handle stress (I haven't ever seen her act like this before though, even when stressed).
Also, sidebar - I really do value the advice of people on this site, but I can't say that I'm extremely religious, so any advice that has less to do with prayer or anything like that would be appreciated. I'm not saying that that isn't the best thing for some people, but it's just not really helpful advice for me right now.
Thanks!