Sexual Materialism

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May 3, 2013
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I couldn't stop myself from writing a thing about this: Today someone who grew with me asked me if I would woo someone he would have flirted first than being “engaged” with someone he doesn’t like.


The thing sounded me sour (as a teaspoon of salt).


Sometime ago he told me he was about to be related to someone who is older than he is. The reason sounded me as materialistic, as he himself acknowledged that day; but this time he invited me to flirt to a friend of his girlfriend.


I know there are sites to match your interest, your life goals -even for sex- but I believe in genuine love or some kind of affections that are not linked to monetary conveniences or secularized sex.


He told me that person is younger than that one he now has. He told me she is the owner of an apartment in Ccs and she is not as rich as the one he dates, because the one he flirts owns real state in Spain, Dominican Republic and here, in Venezuela.


Doesn't this sound like male prostitution?


Five decades served me right to see money is convenient, as a loving person willing to be loyal; but love and friendship were not to be sold or begged. Did they? Was I too blind to see it that way?


I know I sought, before being a Christian, nice looking ladies, illicit or free sex; but I thought people would grew up some day to seek the personality of any person willing to genuily love and care.


He is not Christian, but I think he is close to a convenient prostitution.


It is not a secret old men and women like young people. I know some like to lurk them away, but I won't pay for love and much less for lusty sex. Why do people insist on those faults?


I'm shocked!


I believe in a genuine attraction on people. More than that, I believe God could lead me to the right person, and not following the convenience of my heart or empty pocket.


Wow! That's male prostitution.


I know he pays for the favor he receive from young girls, but he seems to be doing the opposite now.


Is this happening in your culture and in multicultural countries?


I know we don't live immerse in a Christian culture, but I don't think this is happening ALL over the world. I know we had wrong motives when being out of God's ways, but it's hard to believe this evil is widely spread, even inside the family.


I thanked God that my children aren't misbehaving like that. I checked they don't like porn, although they're not dating girls with the exact commitment to be utterly married...


Just letting these ideas flow!


Do you have an idea to share here?


A.Toro
 
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cmarieh

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Well, whether or not its prostitution is not the key issue here. I know you want to look after a childhood friend, but it is "his life" and he will have to answer for his behavior one day, not you. I would suggest your concerns with him, but if its not received, don't worry about it. All you can do is pray that one day he will realize what position he put himself in. I have watched my sister date her boss and now they are getting married. He is fifteen years older than she is and they call it love. They are making their bed and they will have to lie in it. I apologize for sounding so harsh, but sometimes we need to, to get the point across.
 
May 3, 2013
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Thanks!

I was more concerned in the risks of male prostitution or prostituting others...