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I am going through a separation right now with my husband of 4 years. I was in an abusive and controlling marriage with a man who claimed to love the Lord while stepping all over me and his children. We have a son together and I raised his daughter (which I say is my daughter becuz I love her soo much) and I had a son of my own. A family of 5 living in complete chaos. I found out that he was addicted to cocaine and heroine..I had put $17,000 towards a custody battle for my step daughter who was being abused by her step father. I gave so much to my family and all he did was take, take and take. I couldnt go out, I couldnt see my family without permission, I had no life at all. I busted my butt working to support all of us while he used his money for drugs. I still tried to stay by his side and work it out, but the abuse got worse..nothing physical, but verbal, emotional and mental and all infront of my oldest son. I lived a nightmare for so many years and finally decided it was enough. I value marriage, but how can I continue in a marriage that was going to kill me or drive me crazy? He tells me that I have cursed us becuz I am violating Gods law on marriage and I know that's true, but I just couldn't anymore and i just pray for God's mercy so much. I chose this life...God could not have intended for me to live like this or my children, right?