a love that would hide the Truth is not the Love of God, for He is Truth.
hear what the Lord said to Israel before her captivity, while the false prophets said there would be peace:
The conspiracy of her prophets in her midst is like a roaring lion tearing the prey; they have devoured human lives; they have taken treasure and precious things; they have made many widows in her midst.
Her priests have done violence to my law and have profaned my holy things. They have made no distinction between the holy and the common, neither have they taught the difference between the unclean and the clean, and they have disregarded my Sabbaths, so that I am profaned among them.
Her princes in her midst are like wolves tearing the prey, shedding blood, destroying lives to get dishonest gain. And her prophets have smeared whitewash for them, seeing false visions and divining lies for them, saying, ‘Thus says the Lord God,’ when the Lord has not spoken.
(Ezekiel 22:25-28)
what kind of "love" smears whitewash all over a filthy wall? Love cleans the wall; Love doesn't pretend there is no grime.
false teachers say "God is Love" and ignore iniquity. they say "i love you" and neglect to tend your wounds. if the Truth and your idea of soft and cuddly love are at odds, stand on the Truth; true Love does not lie.
My little children, let us not love in word, neither in tongue; but in deed and in truth. And hereby we know that we are of the truth, and shall assure our hearts before him. For if our heart condemn us, God is greater than our heart, and knoweth all things. Beloved, if our heart condemn us not, then have we confidence toward God.
(1 John 3:18-21)
God didn't call you to never say an unkind word. God didn't call you to avoid offending anyone at all costs. God didn't call you to flatter everyone and do your best to see that no one was ever upset. He called you to walk in the light. that light is Truth.