So I really like a guy from my church that I go to whilst I'm at university. I've thought about how I'd like him to be more than a friend for the past 5 months, but have known him and been mates with him for about a year now. I love how much of a Godly man he is, how he really wants to nurture the fruits of the spirit in his life and how fun and caring he is.
So this last Sunday there was a service about surrendering things to God, we all got given a piece of white fabric that represented a flag of surrender, and were told to write something on it that we just wanted to offer up to him. I'm sick of feeling like if I never get married or in a relationship that something in my life is going wrong, and handed over my love life to him.
But at the same time, I do still really like the qualities that this guy has and think being in a relationship with him at some point (even if it wasn't right now) would be really amazing. I've prayed about it and asked God to be at work in that situation if it's right and to change my desires of it's not meant to be, but I still want to tell him how I feel. I think that once I tell him it'll be... fully in God's hands? As I won't have any regrets of like "Oh... should I have done more?"
I'm going to see a movie with him this week with a few other friends, so advice needed, should I say something to him to just tell him I'm interested (but definitely not to ask him out) but also if he doesn't end up feeling the same do people have any ways to deal with maybe being turned down.
Cheers! Xxx
So this last Sunday there was a service about surrendering things to God, we all got given a piece of white fabric that represented a flag of surrender, and were told to write something on it that we just wanted to offer up to him. I'm sick of feeling like if I never get married or in a relationship that something in my life is going wrong, and handed over my love life to him.
But at the same time, I do still really like the qualities that this guy has and think being in a relationship with him at some point (even if it wasn't right now) would be really amazing. I've prayed about it and asked God to be at work in that situation if it's right and to change my desires of it's not meant to be, but I still want to tell him how I feel. I think that once I tell him it'll be... fully in God's hands? As I won't have any regrets of like "Oh... should I have done more?"
I'm going to see a movie with him this week with a few other friends, so advice needed, should I say something to him to just tell him I'm interested (but definitely not to ask him out) but also if he doesn't end up feeling the same do people have any ways to deal with maybe being turned down.
Cheers! Xxx