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Should I borrow money from a Friend who seems to be reluctant about it? I asked one of my friends to loan me a couple of hundred until a certain date, they hesitated for a while but then said they would. They mentioned things about loaning money that they had heard other people say, such as never loaning money to a Friend, family member etc. We continued to talk, so I asked about their own beliefs concerning loaning money, they told me that they feel friends and family should help one another and that they were only enlightening me to some of the myths concerning loaning money. I asked if the reason they brought that to my attention, was based on them being skeptical of loaning me the money or if they were honestly `just saying'. I was told that there was nothing meant by it and they had no problem with it, but now I'm thinking, why bring it up if you meant nothing by it? I really need the money to tide me over, but I don't know if I should borrow it now. I would like to think that since we have been friends so long, that they didn't mean anything by the statement. I'm not at all convinced though, that they didn't...Anyone else experienced something similar? I could use some advice.