Most people totally miss this because they only understand the term, "The Wrath of God", to mean the Fire & Brimstone stuff, but this is what is referred to as "The Wrath of God" all through the NT...... God just letting people go their own way, un-chastised and un-impeded. Letting them take any path they decide will "fulfill" them.
Theres a bible verse I think about often that talks about those who arent saved being given unto the hands of their tormentors. I also often thing of the times God says of the un-righteous, "they have their reward". Being left without His help is definitely the worst thing that can happen to you. He comes to save us from the doom weve brought down on ourselves, yeah.
And yeah, these people, they become obsessed with this fantasy. Like, you really believe that you will /never/ be happy unless you fulfill this dream, this fantasy if becoming something that you arent. And you become so engulfed by it that you even start to hate anyone who not even hates you for it, but just wants you to understand that you can find happiness and peace of mind in different ways. This is the danger of earthly living, living with the need for having things in order to find happiness.
One thing I want to share with people who live this life, every time you make another step into it, you feel good for a bit, but those horrible feelings you want to escape come back, and push you to do more. You tell your friends of your wish. You feel like life is better now, you now have people that understand and accept you. You feel good for a bit, but you still arent living your fantasy. So you change your name and wear the clothes that fit the other gender, and change things about your appearance. You feel good for a bit, you are finally acting the way you want. But then those bad feelings come back again. You have people who wont accept you, who say mean things to you. So you learn all the same generic arguments of the transgender movement, and you go on a crusade, and you find allies who are fighting for your cause too. You feel a little better, your taking the steps to "change the world", your changing peoples minds, your finding friends who wanna fight with you. But those bad feelings come back again, now your not feeling happy with your parts. You feel "illegitimate" because you still have the genitals of your real gender, that function in the way that everyone else of your gender does. You feel wrong because of it, so you take drastic steps to deform yourself to make it stop, and again you somehow feel better for a bit. But no matter what, your never going to /really/ achieve what you are setting out to do, and it will never be right, and all the happiness you find with each step will die away, and in the end you will realize you were chasing after something so freaking meaningless, and it will lead you to death.
Its a really sad thing thats actually happening to people, but the enemy works hard to make it look "beautiful".