"The student is not above the teacher, nor a servant above his master."...."What I tell you in the dark, speak in the daylight; what is whispered in your ear, proclaim from the roofs"....Anyone who loves their father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me; anyone who loves their son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me. Whoever does not take up their cross and follow Me is not worthy of Me."...."Whoever finds their life will lose it, and whoever loses their life for My sake WILL FIND IT." (Matthew 10:24-39).
To be a leader, one must first have wisdom. Wisdom comes from our humility that begins to understand God thru Him possessing us, having the revelation that He is only Wise. Thus, God must be our Master, thru Jesus Christ that bestows on us His wisdom thru the Holy Spirit. There must be this chain of command always as a lifestyle; this is Righteousness. We only do good works for God by first "Sitting" in things already accomplished in Christ.
"In Him we were also chosen, having been predestined according to the plan of Him who works out everything in conformity with the purpose of His will, in order that we, who were the first to put our hope in Christ, (Our volitional will also applied here) might be for the praise of His glory." (Ephesians 1:3-12).
Thus, any effectual outcome of man's leadership must always keep God in the front leading us, and always to wait on Him to call us, or as I like to call it - keeping the horse before the cart. Otherwise even our grandest moral attempts crash from lack of proper alignment and His timing. Being marked in Him thru the Holy Spirit, He guides us and empowers us, transforming us.
Yes, God calls us all to be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. Jesus goes on to announce His will for us is being properly aligned with Him, even to the point of being dead to the right to ourselves, so that His full power will be in us to be the salt and light of the world. The "how to lead" is not in doctrine first, but in the person of Jesus Christ first. Doctrine follows as He leads all men unto Himself:
"All authority in Heaven and on earth has been given to Me (setting the premise of our commissioned leadership with the call of the Holy Spirit). Therefore go and make disciples of all nations (Multiplying what He has done in us), baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, (and now God works thru our good deeds (found in Christ) ...) teaching them to obey everything I commanded you. And surely I am with you always, (Again, the horse before the cart), to the very end of the age." (Matthew 28:16-20).
Thus, Leadership comes not from serving God, but from God serving man thru His humble obedient servants (His Children). We must never seek to persuade those who differ from us merely to think and act as we do. Our one aim must be to lead them closer to Him thru a discussion and discovery mentality. We are not working for outward correctness, or conformity to certain good things, but for a closer relationship to God Himself. The Lordship of Jesus Christ is the central point of Christianity. If, in truth, He is your Lord, and He is my Lord, then He Himself will adjust the other things, as we go to parent new believers in love toward love and good deeds.