Not wanting the same level of seriousness and being polar opposites personality-wise
YES, can relate, somewhat, as, admittedly, though 44 and life I fan count my serious relationships with girls on no fingers, but one girl who liked me , I got to know her on eharmony for 6 months before We went on a date, but, yeah, she was nice girl but just too going in a serious God direction (seminary) and she asked me to go too and I declined. Idk, could have worked out surely, where was my faith, some will say. Maybe, me, too. I will say this, the Lord leads, and, IF He'd wanted it to work out He woulda worked it out. This I truly believe, I also admit that talking online so chattery the both of us was met by some awkward moments of silence on the date.