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Im new to this but i was needing some advice on what i should do because im driving myself crazy.My husband and I have had a lot of financial issues and due to that we had to move in with my parents back in march.He's had 6 jobs since we lost our place and in his defence he wasnt making enough with those jobs.He just literally started a new good paying job last week.My husband and I had a really good relationship/marriage until i noticed that he had a habit of telling lies and i talked to him about it several times and how it bothered me and that we have to have trust and anyways i just put it on the back burner and let it go hoping he would stop lying which didnt happen but i just let it go and continued to have a good relationship with him and enjoy each others company.The lies he told to me were small and not a big deal to me at the time and i was able to quickly forgive and forget.Since he started this new job things have changed from bad to worse with his lying and we have got into several arguments because he accused me of having an affair and God is my witness didnt happen.I dont even have anything to do with the opposite sex.Anyways the same day that we got into that argument he goes and tells my mom all sorts of lies.He said that i spend all his money on myself and that i have hit him before which has never ever happened and that i wont let him buy work boots and that he has blisters on his feet.In other words he tried to make me out to be a monster.So my mom told me everything he said yesterday and when he got home from work i told him what she told me and asked him why.First he lied and said that all his money does go on me and then after awhile he said that he doesnt know why he said those things but that he feels like he never has money for himself and that it gets spent on me and my three yr old daughter and that he wants to buy a lot of things for himself but he cant because of me and my daughter.I only use money on necessities and bills.I do not and can not afford to buy anything for myself.I just dont know what to do or say to him.It seems to me like he wants a divorce and that my child and I are standing in his way from whatever it is he wants to get.I didnt say anything to him after he told me that i didnt what to say.It really hurts and im just in shock.He has repeatedly said that family means everything to him.He could careless about money and material things.