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[isaria]

Would you marry a bi sexual woman or man or would it bother you ?

He/she may be more interested in their own sex.

Many partners seem to have a "deal" often involving finances.
Have heard many stories of woman and men marrying but it is actually more of a cover up.
Some times it may be to keep up appearances or some one to call a wife or husband and bring to business dinners.
Other times it may be more mutual , maybe they both have such sexualities and are good mates.
Heard of one woman married a man with a financial arrangement that she is paid lots of money regularely.

This breaks what marriage is does it not?


I would not want to marry a bisexual man who is sexually desiring men.
I have had enough dramas in my life and yes one can not always know this but if it was known.

I would not either want a husband who wants two wives.
As have written I have had much trouble and been stalked, threatened and crime by a woman and man who are married.
I said no to them and they did not love me but it was they wanted use me and other reasons (long story).


For some it may work wonderfully.
Good for them, but its not for me.
Specially not with this couple .... (was more slavery and isolation and theft and murder and list goes on we were talking )


Where do you stand in these terms?

 

[RickShafer]

No. I wouldn't
Who would?
- Out of material convenience?
- - How convenient is that really?

 

[DuchessAimee]

Simply put, absolutely not.

 

[isaria]

Well, ment theres different versions of such relationships.....<br><br>Some people seem to have a mateship and perhaps understanding and maybe even share same sexuality views and feelings.<br>Others may be "helping a hand " such as a woman someone was telling me of married a wealthy man and was paid regularely for it.Was more like a business deal and she was to go to business dinneres as "the wife" .<br><br>Other times it may be someone you just met but who tells you thaye are of such sexuality and perhaps if i met a man and he tells me he is more attracted to men but he happens to be attracted to me also &nbsp;.<br>Knowing this and his attraction to other men may disturb me.<br>Buuut he may be sincere and pure that he actually does want relations with me but is simply "more for me" in general.<br><br><br>Theres many versions of such scenarios.<br><br>Was a article in papers about supporting bisexual partners.<br>As written theres many versions.<br>Sometimes it may be someone you married to and who falls in love with someone of his/her own gender.<br>Maybe he/she was not planning this.<br>Maybe they did not even know that would ever happen when they married you.....<br><br>

 

[RickShafer]

Well, ment theres different versions of such relationships.....<br><br>Some people seem to have a mateship and perhaps understanding and maybe even share same sexuality views and feelings.<br>Others may be "helping a hand " such as a woman someone was telling me of married a wealthy man and was paid regularely for it.Was more like a business deal and she was to go to business dinneres as "the wife" .<br><br>Other times it may be someone you just met but who tells you thaye are of such sexuality and perhaps if i met a man and he tells me he is more attracted to men but he happens to be attracted to me also &nbsp;.<br>Knowing this and his attraction to other men may disturb me.<br>Buuut he may be sincere and pure that he actually does want relations with me but is simply "more for me" in general.<br><br><br>Theres many versions of such scenarios.<br><br>Was a article in papers about supporting bisexual partners.<br>As written theres many versions.<br>Sometimes it may be someone you married to and who falls in love with someone of his/her own gender.<br>Maybe he/she was not planning this.<br>Maybe they did not even know that would ever happen when they married you.....<br><br>

Yes, all of these scenarios are possible.
The limits to total degradation are never met.
Hell is never full.
But neither is heaven.
Not while mankind is still living under the rule of his own passions.
There are literally millions of possibilities.........all of which are signs of fallen nature.
God either gives you grace or He doesn't.
The grace is to love one mate of the opposite sex.
Anything less or more than that is signs of sin.
Look at the totality of trouble Abraham, Jacob, David, and Solomon got into by having more than one wife......
- And that was just more than one WOMAN who was their wife.
- - The rest you describe are just more and varied signposts of mankind's absolute fallen nature.
- - - And how it has swelled in the era of total tolerance.
- - - -Lucifer is smart, and the king of sophistry.

 

[zeroturbulence]

Would I marry a bisexual woman? Yes, as long as she is committed to me I'm not bothered by the fact that she also finds women attractive.

 

[Fritters]

I could never.

 

[TigerScent777]

Nope !!

Some years ago, a lesbian woman was offering herself (it seems to me?) to procure a child for herself and partner..., offering 'visitation rights' etc..

...I just played 'dumb' and thought to myself; 'this woman has got to be tripping'... LOL

 

[zeroturbulence]

I think the women here are greatly underestimating the advantages of marrying a bisexual male. You'd be able to shop for clothes together and he would know all the designer brands and he could probably cook as good as, if not better than you, and he would bake amazing cakes and desserts and help with all the decorating and arts and crafts and he will love watching HGTV and Lifetime channel and will probably love challenging you to cleaning contests for fun too!

 

[maxwel]

When I get married, I hope I don't have to be so specific about who, or what, I expect her NOT to sleep with.

"No other men, no other women, no men and women combined, no transgendered men, no transgendered women, no troglodytes, no cross-dressers of any persuasion that might have confused you, no dogs, no cats, etc. etc. etc."

 

[DuchessAimee]

I wasn't always christian and my previous religion celebrated "open" sexuality. It was believed to bring you power. Anyway, I saw more heartbreak in same sex unions than I ever did in heterosexual ones.


I will not share my future husband with anyone sexually. That includes pornography. I refuse. And before he and I say I do, that will be made abundantly clear. I won't cheat on him; I expect the same curtesy.

 

[MatthewMichael]

I think you hit the nail on the head when you said, "this breaks what marriage is."

I highly doubt it works wonderfully for anyone. Maybe for a very short time. There's a large number of people who would say their casual sexual relationships are fulfilling. I would guess it is because everything in our culture and media is telling them to think and say that, and those people without the knowledge of Christ are left with no rock/foundation, no truth.

Desperately trying to fit into society (which is all that's left after you eliminate truth/Christ), the world tells them something's "cool," and they'll do it and force a smile whether they really like it or not. The herd thinks for the individual.

Sex without love is just getting high. The high always wears off, and when it does, you're lower than where you started.

 

[error]

Why would I do that????

 

[Searching4Truth]

Miss out on the chance of a woman kissing another woman in front of your eyes?
...
But it would go against the plan for you.
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[Fenner]

I'm married, but I wouldn't marry someone that's bisexual.

 

[CatHerder]

I guess a big thing would be their attitude toward homosexuality. Do they consider it a sin? I believe one can be struggling with same sex attraction and still be a follower of God. Does this make them suitable marriage material? It seems that everyone is messed up in some way, shape, or form, so I dunno. How they consistently conduct themselves is a big factor here.

I have a friend who used to be a practicing homosexual. Now, 20+ years later, he is a devoted husband and wonderful father, is bold about sharing Christ, and is a powerful witness. He once shared with me that though he still sometimes wants men sexually, he would never go against God in that way again, nor would he break his marital vows. I believe that he has been open with his wife about these occasional feelings.

I also know of a pastor who, while I don't think he ever acted on his desires, has struggled with same sex attraction. He is also married with kids. Every now and again, he is at a booth during San Francisco gay pride events and talks to and shares Christ with the many who will stop by his booth.

 

[dliz]

Hmm..My answer is no because I think there's a huge chance that he would more likely go back to his old ways. The problem is when you are already married and then all of sudden your husband wants legal separation(divorce is not allowed in my country) or divorce because he prefers men over women.

 

[presidente]

That's funny. I have a relative who is a bachelor. Many years ago, I went to visit some relatives, and they were telling me how he had been up there (he lived far away) with a friend of his who was a lesbian. But they hugged each other and were really close, and were thinking about getting married. His relatives seemed to like the idea. I said, hold on a second here. You tell me he brought a lesbian up here, and he wants to marry a lesbian, and you all like that idea? They liked the girl, and maybe she had been a bit gender confused. Maybe she used the lesbian thing to keep my relative close, since he seemed to be a bit scared of marriage. I don't know. I thought it was weird to say a woman was a lesbian and then be happy about her wanting to marry a male relative. It doesn't sound like a good bet for a marriage on the surface.

I can just imagine a woman saying, "Normally, I'm a lesbian. But for you, I'll make an exception."

How do you define 'bisexual'? If you mean someone who currently engages in sex with both genders, I think everyone's answer should be 'no.' I am married, but I wouldn't have wanted to marry a woman who self-identified as a lesbian. I wouldn't have wanted to marry a woman who thought the whole gay rights thing was okay. I wanted someone with the same values when it came to sex and various other issues. I wanted a virgin, and I married one. I was one myself. Virgin but lesbian wasn't what I was praying for.

Now if someone has some kind of Hosea call, that's between them and the Lord. If you use 'bisexual' to permanently label someone who has had sex or desired sex with both genders, then I don't think we should accept this labeling system from this present evil age. The gay rights or LGBT movement categorizes people as 'heterosexual', 'homosexual' and some of them also include 'bisexual.' (One day there may be a movement for pedeosexual or zoosexual.) The weird thing is, the government has started to accept people as members of minority groups based on their sexual preferences. Why should what someone wants to do in the bedroom make them a minority. It's absolutely insane.

if someone used to have a dark sexual past, homosexual activity or whatever, and they get saved, then the Bible says, "and such WERE some of you, but now ye are washed, now ye are sanctified, now ye are justified...."

It also says, "Reckon yourselves to be dead indeed unto sin, but alive unto God..." so I don't think believers should call themselves gay, bisexual, homosexual, lesbian, etc. The old man is dead. Why reckon yourselves to be gays or fornicators? Why accept a label whereby you identify yourself by your past sin, or even the lusts of the flesh that you could be tempted with. Reckon yourselves to be dead to sin.

Now if a believer wants to marry another believer, and that person has had to struggle with same-sex attraction, I wouldn't say that's forbidden. It's something to take into consideration when making such a big decision.

As far as having a marriage of convenience with a homosexual or bi-sexual to go to office parties, I really can't see why that's would be desirable in a western country where you can be single, but no one but your mom, your grandma and nosy aunts care. Why would you want to get married if you aren't going to have a sex life? I can see why some people marry for money or stability, but would you have to do this with someone whose gay or bi-sexual? Surely there are plenty of better victims out there for gold diggers or partners for people looking for stability. Maybe a homosexual man and a lesbian could marry for appearances. But I don't see why they would see it necessary in the social climate of the west.

In another country, I do know one couple where the woman is very stout, wears short hair and sensible shoes. The man is kind of thin and not very macho. Anyway, they are believers, so I don't want to characterize them any more. But I think they've had a child now, so it's not just ofr show.

 

[Loveneverfails]

I define bisexual as someone who recognizes that they are sexually attracted to both sexes. Who you're attracted to has nothing to do with your decision to act on those sexual desires.

I would marry a bisexual man if he:
- was a believer
- knew homosexual behavior was sinful
- knew adulterous behavior was sinful
- committed himself to me and forsook all others, men and women alike